I need help. I think my b/f has that disorder where your mood changes drastically in just a few seconds (bipolar) and everytime I confront him about it he blows up. He really scares me sometimes though. He gets to yelling and throwing things at me and spitting but in the end he swears up and down that he is sorry and didnt know what came over him. I love him with all my heart and I dont know what to do. He has no one else but me... his mom called the cops on him and had him arrested and then kicked him out of the trailer he was living in that belongs to his grandma who just recently pasted away. I think he might hurt himself if I break it off. We have been together for almost a year and a half. What do I do? What would you do?
2006-06-06 19:28:05 · 11 answers · asked by lonely_purple_angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, thats a hard one. I'd tell him you'd have to seperate unless he got some treatment.
2006-06-06 19:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by Christian_Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, throwing things at you is scary. if i were you, i would talk to him about checking himself in for treatment, but have this talk in a public area like a restaurant, and have a big guy friend waiting outside for you in case things go wrong. explain you love him and want to work through this together. make it sound like a mutual problem 4 both of u rather than placing all the blame on him, b/c that way he may be more willing to go for help. your bf sounds violent. if he refuses to get treatment, you need to end the relationship, and possibly get a restraining order. good luck
2006-06-07 04:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by vhershie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he screams, yell and throw things at you. Why do you keep going back for more of the same action. Are you biopolar as well? If not, do you really need a man that bad, to have him scream, yell, and throw things at you. If you marry him, you have a lot of surprises comining. BABY! you ain't seen nothin yet. Keep on playing around with that damaged mind of his.
2006-06-07 02:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by Petergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really needs to get some help. If he doesn't then he will continue the way he's going now. If he isn't willing to seek some help then I don't see any other way you could stay with him. Someone like that can easily hurt you or even kill you and not actually mean to. Good luck honey.
2006-06-07 02:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by jacquelinebrns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off and tell him to get help. You do not need that crap in your life. Next he'll be hitting you and saying he is sorry after you've been to the hospital. Sorry to be so harsh but until he gets control over his life he is a bit dangerous to have around.
2006-06-07 02:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by Moloth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get him help and from the looks of it he doesn't want it. He on the offensive end. I have bi-polar and yes you have mood swings. From the sound of it your bf is stressed out. When you have no one in your corner but one person you tend to feel that they'll leave eventually. I have my children who are grown now they help me a lot. Sometimes us bi-polar victims are not relationship material cause people don't understand our pain or inner feelings of unappreciation and worthlessness. We want to be with someone but that someone has to understand when the moods come they aren't directed at them but taken out on them cause they are around. Be patient with him.
2006-06-07 02:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him to a doctor right away for medication and pyschological help before he hurts you or someone else. No matter what the excuse is you shouldnt be putting up with abuse from any man !!
2006-06-07 02:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by aussie_chic66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him and his mom ..Tell them you are concerned and want to help ...Bi Polar is nothing to mess around with he needs medical help to get it under control......If his mother won't help go to the counselors in school and tell them you are concerned about this boy and that his mother doesn't give a ****..
2006-06-07 02:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should honestly get away from him before he takes his anger out on you in a fatal way.if you chose to stay get him to seek some sort of professional help, he may require some sort of medication.ther are all sorts of free clinics just search them ont he net
2006-06-07 02:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by Bo Darville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your job to resolve his problems. He requires a professional to diagnose his problem, and prescribe medication to help him cope with life.
I would suggest he consult with a good medical professional.
2006-06-07 02:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋