2006-06-06 19:18:25 · 10 answers · asked by Sherilyn M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what is their to understand about domestic abuse? it should never happen. that is what i understand and that is what anyone with half a brain should understand. this is coming from someone who has been there.
2006-06-06 19:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that needs more information.
Some parents, have children, their daughters who are in abusive relationships and want their children to be safe. They understand but what they are saying to their daughter isn't being understood because she is being brainwashed by the abuser.
Some parents, believe that their daughter should stay in a marriage no matter what, to sae face of being divorced. They do not fully understand the effects of abuse and what it does. They are unconnected with what really happens and the impact that emotional and physical abuse has. Or possibly they are also in abusive relationships and just consider it to be the way it should be.
Are the parents being abusive to each other and you are the child looking on? If so, you need to get safe and not be around when they fight. There is not much you can do to empower them to have a healthy relationship however, you have control in making sure that you break the cycle and have healthy relationships yourself.
2006-06-07 03:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, go and get yourself some sense, Domestic abuse in a relationship is violence no one wants to be around that kind of behavior. So if you are the one that is getting abused instead of you trying to explain it to someone you need to be getting out of the relationship. If you stay you are a FOOL!!!!!
2006-06-07 03:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by mothers finest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean that your parents are in a domestic abusive relationship??????? or that they don't understand why your in one???????? I am confused. Either way I don't understand why anyone would stay, there is not one good reason to stay in a relationship where there is abuse. No one deserves the treatment and there is no excuse. Good Luck to whom ever
2006-06-07 02:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by rqtpie19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR ABUSE! NONE, Maybe they don't understand it because they have this thought process. If you are in an abusive relationship, get out!
2006-06-07 02:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, and it shouldn't matter what they think or how they handle it, if it is happening to you...get out, go to a womens shelter and let them help you get on your feet......if it is between them...pull the person away that is getting abused and have lunch with a womens shelter councilor, they will be glad to help and you will be there for support.
2006-06-07 02:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by this question? Are they for or against it... They should be dead set against it as this should not EVER happen in a relationship or marriage! Are you seeking counseling and help for this?
2006-06-07 08:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you please elaborate? are you stating you are in a abusive relationship and they don't understand? or are they in a abusive relationship and you are unable to help?
butterfly, if you've been there, please remember your roots, don't judge. you've been there as you allege. you should understand the vicious cycle. it's easy to judge others now that you are safe.
2006-06-07 02:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parent who is the victim. Tell him/her that he/she has a choice and that is to leave his/her spouse. Then leave him/her to make the choice, afterall they are adults and should know what they want in life.
2006-06-07 02:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT - I'M SURE THEY UNDERSTAND .
2006-06-07 02:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋