guy no.1 he's been my bf for a year and 6 months, he really loves me but he's closed minded, and because of that we fight n broke up all the time!!! during those fights and broke upz i met guy no.2 which treats me like a queen, thinks like me n has manyy things in common with me! we like the same things n hate the same things we even say the same things at the same time! weird huh?! he's fun to be with, he's funny smart, soooooo i started goin out with him n he said he loves me, n i love him too ?!! wat the hell !! so my bf guy no.1 begged me bck as usuall,, he says he loves me n needs me even though we fight all the time.. n i miss him.. lols sometimes i miss him when i'm with guy no.2 .. got lots of great momeries with guy no.1 n i love him but i luv guy no.2 too?!! i dunnoo !! i have to choose btw em today coz its unfair 4 both of em !! who should i choose??!!! (i'm 18, guy no.1 is 19 n guy no.2 is 22) .. i've been with guy no.2 for 3 months or more..
2006-06-06 19:09:50 · 11 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not love them sweetie.
Its just lust/ or attraction
If you love someone, theres nobody else for you, and that one person is whom your for.
2006-06-06 19:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by inthisskin22x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
their is a thin line between love and lust . it is so hard to tell at first and i think guy 1 is not love at a ll bc you had nothing great to say about him at all so i think you want us to tell you guy 2 bc that is the one you really want anyway but your scared if you choose him it might not work out then guy 1 wont b there either n u r screwed. so go for guy 2 cuz u r done w 1 in your heart ne way re read what you wrote. answer your own question.
2006-06-06 19:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you miss guy no 1 if you are with guy no 2..now do you miss guy no 2 if you are with guy no. 1? if the answer is yes then go for no. 2, if not stick with guy no.1. plain and simple.
2006-06-06 19:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is your choice , as to for whom does your heart ticks more for ... 1 or 2 ... you can't sail on two diffrent boats at the same time u gotta decide which boat to take ..
and you need to decide btw LUST n LOVE ....
2006-06-06 19:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by Baregama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ask you heart ask your mined what to do
as you describe #1 your heart is with#2 so dump #1
2006-06-06 19:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by aziz a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because to love someone is to not hurt them and your risking to hurt guy one by him finding out. Thats not love besides you really havn't known either long enough to love them it takes longer than six months to know someone and to love someone is to really know all their good and bad and still love them.
2006-06-06 19:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone HAS to get hurt. Pick one.
2006-06-06 19:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by miss*miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go back..that is not love that is feeling sorry for him
2006-06-06 19:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which is love and which one is lust?
I guess you could but it's not right for the other gie.......
2006-06-06 19:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by jeffrey R Martin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋