how can i get my wife quickly to orgasm.help cos i dont know when she is at orgasm?
2006-06-06 18:58:52 · 15 answers · asked by bharat d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hey you should use some toys take her with you and let her pick the one she wants and get some "motion lotion" let her put it on your **** thats if she goes down town on you! Also when you use the toys get a vibrating one because to me it feels good! Then when your using the toy on her ask her if she likes it like that then if she says "yes" go a little faster! Ask again dont ram it in because it just might hurt her! Go gentle so that she'll be relaxed and she'll enjoy it more...
Then when you go on top of her ask her if she feels good! Go slow then speed up a little also ask her how she wants you to do it what I meant is ask:" Honey do you want me to go slower of faster" or "Harder or softer" then when she gets to the BIG "O" she will start shaking and making loud noises and trying to get you off dont get mad its normal I think! She'll get really excited and want more and when she reaches the big O its like you drained every thing from her!!!
2006-06-14 23:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her some orgasm bead these work great and do you know where her g spot is..... Have her tell you when she orgasms and this might help too. When she starts squirming and wiggling out of control that is an orgasm. try giving her lots of oral and then make sure she has an orgasm and trust me you will know when it happens that way!
2006-06-07 00:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of foreplay, use toys and experiment, guys love using toys on a woman, thats the fun of sex is experimenting, and be open to new ideas, you may think it's something you won't like, but in the end it may surprise you!
You need to be creative to avoid sexual boredom. Try a new location, rent a hotel room, experiment with new positions, buy new lingerie, rent a sexy video, try a hot bath, candles and a massage. Cast your inhibitions to the wind. And then get busy!
2006-06-06 19:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah hun........ she might really like that.... if you just ask her, talk to her while you are being intimate with her and see if she talks back. find out what she likes and do it. then ask if you are doing it right, cuz she probably won't tell you if you are doing it wrong,,, ... you might learn allot that way! you never know what she'll say until you try. I know I liked it... to be asked questions. that is the only way you will ever know.. so try to get her to tell you how, where, and when she is at an orgasm...oh u will like that too!
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2006-06-06 19:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tierra bb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS THE CLIMAX POINT OF INTEREST THAT LADY ENJOYS AT THE TIME OF ORGASM. THIS CAN BE NOTICED IN YOUR WIFE WHILE SHE IS UNUSUALLY EMBRACING YOU OR MAKING A WHISTLING SOUNDS OR SOME SORTS OF EXTERNAL EXPRESSIONS OR SOUND AND ACTION AND MOVEMENTS. DECIDE THAT IS THE TIME SHE IS IN HER TOP..O.K ALSO THAT IS TIME SHE COOPERATES WITH YOU TO HANDLE HER IN ANY WAY YOU LIKE WITHOUT ANY RESERVATIONS FROM HER SIDE. GOOD LUCK
2006-06-06 19:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by gkakkasseri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have her masturbate while you are having sex..it takes longer for a woman to have an orgasm than it does a man
2006-06-15 08:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by my_lttle_devil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE remember...it takes more for a woman to get off than a man. A "quickie" will only make matters worse if you are trying to please her. Talk dirty to her! You might even want to try "southern routes" to get the juices flowin. I'm no longer married, but I once was. Please listen when I say that a "wham bam thank-you ma'am" will not help you in this situation...
2006-06-14 18:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by smiling cutie pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,ask her or go down town for a while.or a lot of 4 play.
2006-06-06 19:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by CHELA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of foreplay, ask her how she feels and what she wants. By the way, are you always in hurry?
2006-06-06 19:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by smurf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord man, why would you want to do it quickly?
2006-06-06 23:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋