how do you get someone that's really mad at you to forgive you?

Question

i have already tryed saying sorry

Answer 1

You cannot make someone forgive you. All you can do is try to talk it out and change whatever you have done to anger the person. It will take time. Depending on what you have done, it may never happen, even though the other person does need to forgive you for their own mental health. If it is a matter of cheating on another person, it can lead to the end of the relationship....it is a matter of trust and that is a very difficult thing to overcome. It is not impossible, it is just very difficult. Trust is a very hard thing to get over when someone has betrayed that trust, no matter what the cause. In that case, you need to show the person you can be trusted and realize that it will take time, sometimes lots of time. Good luck, I hope you can find forgiveness.

Answer 2

You should forgive him of course. Be his friend? Do your other friends treat you so badly? Probably not. You would be furious if your girlfriends did that to you so why would you let him off the hook? He's certainly not more special than they are. He had someone else break up with you because he has no backbone. Forgive him but move on. You don't need the friendship of someone who gets other people to do his dirty work.

Answer 3

Sometimes its a really hard thing to get someone to forgive you, especially when they are steaming mad at you... i guess the best way to go about it is to make the apology when this person is a little on the happy side....maybe while doing what both of you enjoy to do... just slip a little "i'm sorry" at that moment and hope that forgiveness follows.
Good luck!!!

Answer 4

Well, depending on what you did and what their level of humility is, it probably won't happen instantly. Best thing is to let them know how truly sorry you are by apologizing and then being diligent not to repeat the offense. It may take some time to earn their trust back. No matter what you do, just be sincere and let them know you've learned your lesson, you love them and you want to make amends. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 5

it depends how big your mistake was or how hurt that other person is, give him/her sometime to heal..give some space between the two of you. when you think the other person's calmed down try to apologized and make it look like you really mean it don't just say your sorry explain why you did such a thing and tell the other person that you regret doing that

Answer 6

Well that depends on what reason one is mad at .
If you realise that it was your mistake and it terribly hurt the other person .Then talking it out is the only way .
just by materialistic things like gifts , drinks etc , does not solve problem.
Try be pure in what you say ,realise your mistake.
If its from both sides,then solve your differences first .

Answer 7

be nice to them and do as they do. Love them and just talk to them and ask what was it that mad them so mad and try to work it out in lover and forgive them first and they will come around.

Answer 8

earn it back. prove you're sorry. sounds to me like 'someone' has totally had it with you..do the right thing and you'll be ok.

Answer 9

Sometimes sorry isn't good enough,what did you do that was so bad,kiss butt big time.

Answer 10

first you ask them why they are mad and then you tell them what you understood them to say and if they say no ask them to repeat it once more bc you really care about their feelings then repeat it again to them and usually youll b right and appologize , dont defend yourself or try to make excuses just be honest with what you think and say something like im sorry i hurt you or angered you and our friendship,relationship,etc.. means alot to me and id like you to accept my appology so we can get past this and move on because your a good person and i value your opinion blah blah blah. good luck, honesty really works