I was just wondering some people wait till their marriage to have sex. Some people take sex very casually and have it before marriage . Is the relationship is strong & more intimate in the former case (waiting till marriage) . I know they will be free from STDs . Any other advantage ?
2006-06-06 18:52:08 · 8 answers · asked by tough_guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Perhaps if you wait, you will find out you are completely sexually incompatible, and then be "stuck" with someone for the rest of your life with no intimacy between you. I think you should bear in mind that marriage is a man made institution, and the rules governing it were designed and written by man in order to control and subjugate mainly women. Think about these things seriously and decide what's right for you irrespective of what other people tell you to do.
2006-06-06 20:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by fishy 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Aside from religious/Biblical principles, sex before marriage clouds your judgement and you are more likely to confuse lust with love. More likely to stay in a bad relationship (or just wrong person for you) because the sex is good. You are also more likely to have an unplanned pregnancy (NOTHING is 100% except abstinence) which can further complicate things. And like you mentioned, there are the STD's....
Besides, if you wait you won't have to worry about comparing your spouse to a former lover and if you marry a virgin you won't have to worry about them comparing you to someone else they were with.
If you wait it will be a gift to the person you decide to marry. I feel the bond will be stronger/more intimate because of it.
2006-06-07 02:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by QueenBee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no difference it makes.u can have it b4 marriage r after.but if u have sex b4 m ur family&his/her family won't respect u at all.u have 2 loose some nice things.beyond sex there is life,family and so many things.so if u don't want 2 loose it u have 2 wait
2006-06-07 02:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Sex before marriage, Lust...leads to destruction, and curse.
God will bless you if you wait till marriage.
If you wait, both are virgins, your marriage will be blessed!
2006-06-07 01:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by inthisskin22x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely YES! i wish i waited. i am waiting now. the advantage is of thinking how special you're loved one is going to feel knowing they're your first and that you waited for them. also the fact that God will bless your union and that you will enjoy it 100x more then before marriage. :)
2006-06-09 03:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All EXCELLENT answers to this Question.
I agree 100 %.
Waiting until you are married it will be wonderful.
2006-06-07 02:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by sumbunnyhoney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
anyone can have sex sex isex
when your inlove making love is better than sex could ever be
2006-06-07 16:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't it nice to discover and learn sex with the person you truly loved and married?!
2006-06-07 02:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋