I am a virgin guy & i am getting married. I am worried about how will i perform my first intercourse. I had heard it from my friends that it is very painful & the **** bleeds & swells.
Please let me know what are the things i have to do & what not to do to enjoy my first intercourse.
2006-06-06 18:34:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well if it's her first time, i think she will be the one in pain and not all girls bleed but it's still painful and my first few times at sex was horrible so don't be scared if her first few times are not great. Try relaxing her and enter her very slowly so that her vagina can get used to your penis. It definitely helps if her vagina is wet, if you get my drift. (try putting a finger inside her first and move it gently in and out so she can get use to the intrusion). Guys always like sex, even their first time. Also you might eject *** faster than you might like but some virgin guys don't even eject at all their first time. But if you do eject faster than you like just take your time, pleasing her. I recommend you go to a book store or a sex shop and pick up a few books on sex.
2006-06-06 19:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Still Halloween 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have never heard of that. I am a girl though. I don't think that's true though. Also, if you are married, she will love you no matter what and I'm sure she'd be more than happy to walk you through it. If she's also a virgin, it will be a perfect moment for you both to discover how things work. You could also pick up a Sex For Dummies or a Kama Sutra. They do help!
2006-06-07 01:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Doesnt Matter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully she is virgin too and you will learn together. Just love her as tenderly as if she was a piece of fine glass that you might break. Spend hours caressing and getting to know each others body's before you penetrate.
Do not worry, nature will help you out. Don't rush it,, that is the only mistake you could make.
Be happy and don't be nervous,, that is why time is important, if you are nervous your bride will be too.
2006-06-07 01:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about your penis as long as you don't do anything stupid to it. Don't bang it into things or cut it in any way. Your wife should be more worried about sex for the first time, as she will be the one to have the pain.
2006-06-07 02:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY IT NOT AS bad as every one says the first couple mins but once you get over the first few mins. youll do just fine you only bleed if he pops ur cherry it will hurt but not as ,uch as every one puts on be on top so you control the pace you go at
2006-06-07 01:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica *jess* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to relax & tell him how you feel. I think he will be understanding and will surprise you. The best is yet to come, learning together is the most wonder thing in life.
2006-06-07 02:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by mklwis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and go with the flow. if you worry to much youwon't enjoy it. if you just relax, take it slow and let it happy you will be fine.
Congrats on your marrage and have fun.
2006-06-07 01:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult a therapist
2006-06-07 01:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult a sex manual.
2006-06-07 01:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋