Im 23 yrs old I lost my virginity when I was 12. I got pregnant at 17 and havent had sex with any one but my daughters father since I was pregnant. He actually went to prison when I was about 7 months and has been in prison since... he wont be out till 08... (my best friend is actually his cousin I met him thru her..) Ive known her since i was 12 and was very permiscuis thru my teens...its been about 5 years since Ive been with anyone and honestly.. having a child changed my life.. sex is no longer what "its" about anymore. I enjoy staying home with my daughter and just being a mom... when my friend I talk, we sometimes talk about sex, as girlfriends do, when I say how long its been for me shes always says Yeah right, You dont have to lie to me.. or yeah sure, I've explaned sex is not what gives me satisfaction anymore..she claims im "waiting" for him but I'm not.. I dont date. not that I dont want to its there are more important things going on in my life...
2006-06-06 17:51:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when I was 17 I had no worries, also no job no car... just loser guys who I see know only wanted to screw.. since my daughter I have a great car, job, I love being a mom.. but why is it so hard to belive sex is not important??
2006-06-06 17:52:43 · update #1
Because most people equate sex with love and the two actions are very different.
Love is what you have for your daughter,, commitment and action for her well being. Love is always an action not a feeling.
Be proud of yourself. It sounds like you have all priorities in order.
2006-06-06 17:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first, it's because you were a hoe as a teen and then you started dating your best friends cousin and she probably thinks that you are waiting for him to get out so you lie when you say you haven't been with anyone.
She thinks that you are getting you some and won't tell her out of fear she will tell your daughters father when he gets out. Are you planning on being with him when he gets out? If you are, then face the truth, you are waiting on him.
But you can't make her believe that you aren't having sex. And people are going to believe what they are going to believe. Like you said, there are more important things in life, so don't worry about what your friends believe about your sex life. You've told them before you ain't gettin none and that should be it. You can't prove it to them...
But I really hope you aren't waiting on him.
2006-06-07 00:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it isn't! It isn't important! I have my half sister and her Mom doesn't get married but has sex with all these different guys! ( my dad was one of them ) And she has all these illagitamet kids running around and she isn't married, and just got evicted from her house. Now she is living in Calumet Michigan and has been gone for 1 week now! But you should onyl have sex if you want to have a planned pregnancy! Not for the heck of it!!!!!
2006-06-07 00:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Carly-Rae<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go read bilboards, look in magazines and look on mtv. and reality shows then tell me why. Look at the peer pressure and society says it's ok. You are a smart person to put kids first. You are rare your friends are a dime a dozen and so are your peers. It's all about the sex to them.
2006-06-07 00:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me see i know how u feel my girl was 16 when she had a baby and turned 17 this year tell them that love is more important then being someones one-night-stand and only u know that you're not so tell them if they don't believe u to back off
2006-06-07 18:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sex is really important. People will believe what they will as long as you believe in yourself what does it matter?
2006-06-07 00:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about her... you have a daughter and a life to continue with.... does it really matter what she says?
2006-06-07 01:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by on3_crzy_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋