To married woman....?

Question

i found out my boyfriend of the last 6 months has a wife. Hes told her his away on work but really hes being staying at my house almost every night. If you were married, would you like to know? Should i call her (i got her number out of his phone) and if yes what could i say without sounding like a family breaker?

He has two young children

i broke up with him - since i found out

Answer 1

you've been seeing my husband??? Just kidding! Personally I think I would want to know if it were my husband. Mine is away at work alot, and because I am at home with out 3 small children and he is far enough away i can't just get up and go check on him everyday even if I wanted to.
There are way too many STD's floating around out there and if he's been moonlighting with you then he probably has others too, and because of my children I would like to be assured that he isn't bringing something home to me, I have this strong desire to watch them grow up for some reason:)
Call her, don't be rude, just simply say you know her husband and she might want to ask him what he's been up to, then tell the bas@#$ to hit the road, but mention on his way out that when he gets home he will have some explaining to do!

Answer 2

I am married first off. But if I were u, I wouldn't call her becuz u have enough trouble dealing wit him. And if u tell her she's more than likely going to blame u and get mad at u and prolly want to fight u. Not saying u couldn't win the fight or nething. But most ppl like to put blame on the other person instead of looking at their significant other.
U definitely need to tell that guy how it is and leave him. He's playin games, has been obviously from the start. If he's cheated on her wit u, how many other females has he cheated on his wife wit? and if he does it 2 her then he more than likely would do it 2 u. U definitely deserve some1 who can be there 4 u wit NO strings attached. he's definitely not worth ur time!!!

Answer 3

it doesn't matter whatt you say you will be a family breaker if you continue with this creep. Be a woman of virtue and Run if you don't you will remember this answer one day when he's treating you like dirt and regret not listening Besides theres so many free guys you could get unless your just desperate rite? What about the kids have a heart they deserve their dad if you take him she can get a new man but losing a real dad will put a hole in their hearts forever that that can't be repaid don't be so selfish just run!you can steal bread and pay it back seven times but if God said give those kids all their memories back with their dad there you never could do that and i wouldn't want to be standing in front of the Lord with the eraser in my hand after i erased a child's father out of all their pictures--- your day is coming do the rite thing!

Answer 4

You might not know the whole story. If he's staying at your house every night, he is obviously in a loveless marriage and is having trouble breaking the news to her. It's a tough situation if children are involved especially. If you feel betrayed by him, then just break it off. I think you should let him explain. If you want to be with this man, then you should let him break it off with his wife. Hurting someone is no fun for anyone. But, tell him you don't intend to be a third wheel. It's not fair for you to sit around and wait either. good luck!

Answer 5

Forget about her, that's not your problem. Your problem is him. Why didn't he tell you he was married for 6 months. You should not call her, dealing with her is his job. He's the one who made a promise to her that he broke. Your issue is what to do about him. Do you really want to keep being involved with a married man who's lying to his wife? Why don't you ask your boyfriend if he wants you to call his wife, yes, that's what i recommend. Don't go behind his back, tell him that if he doesn't tell her you will. See what happens.

Answer 6

Yes I would want to know and yes I would want to be called, it would be the only right thing to do as a human being. So start dialing right now this wife needs to know. You must be the bigger person here and do the right thing and explain to her the whole situation, he must be caught and face the consequences do the right thing and good luck. Sound sincere as you do in your question explain to her that you didn't know and the words will flow after that, and do not see him anymore after that do not accept his phone calls cut off all ties with him forever.

Answer 7

rid this so called man . in my opion he cant be much or he would never do his children like this. . make it plain to him if he returns you will call the law. as for his wife . she has a right to know. without the children with her. she really needs to know what she is married to . there is no need to hurt the children over his lack of morals. but call her and ask her to meet you and let this woman know abou him as well have something of his she will see that you are not kidding about him this might keep you out of court if she decides to go that route with him and she really needs to . in my opion the next boyfried you get check him out to see he isnt married . my opion ?

Answer 8

i am married. Don't call her because more than likely she won't believe you anyhow, but you do need to kick his sorry but to the curb and back to his family.

if he doesn't want to be with them then he needs to do it the legal way first before getting involved in a relationship. get a divorce then move on with his self satisfying ways.

Besides if he is cheating on his wife what makes you think he won't cheat on you?

Answer 9

How did you know he has 2 little kids and a wife --- you didn't mention anything about him telling you all that ????
And you said you got her number out of his phone --- so evidently you have forgotten to mention somethings

Answer 10

Kick him out but don't call her. She might know already and is glad he is not at home. Sounds like a loser to me.