Looking for a permanent third, We love eachother very much but I sometimes feel the want/need to be with another woman and so does he plus I sould use the extra company at home and we enjoy the companionship. We have had a few girlfriends but usually they get along with one of us grat and not so much with the other. Anu tips on finding her or is anyone interested?
2006-06-06 17:20:42 · 11 answers · asked by mailie0880 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am not interested in other men, I am bi (used to be a lesbian before meeting my husband, yup changed teams) I just sometimes still feel the need for that female companionship and sex.
2006-06-06 17:31:40 · update #1
There are nationwide clubs and groups with just your sort of proclivities. Do a web search under "swingers" (I know, I know-corny), and you will find groups in your area ,and what inividual or couples needs they have within them ("single female looking for couple"). It is nice to know going into it that you will all be on the same page, and there will be no shock or shame or lost friendships by asking people you know. Besides, if she has different experiences than you two, it can spice up the meetings with her repertoire! Good luck.
2006-06-19 10:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by bigheadbride 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say you need to go out as a couple and find the right woman for both of you. If he's your husband then I count you as one person. Both of you should complement each other and need someone who can compliment both. Bi is definitely the avenue you should explore. Any acquaintances or friends you can call on. You may like to check the on-line communities and alt lifestyle pages to find a closer match for what you want. Good Luck.
2006-06-20 18:32:24 · answer #2 · answered by Bill F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt suggest this, but hey ur choice--ur life. I wish u both happiness. Now, down to business. U both make a list together of what u want in this other woman, and then find one who fits at least most of those qualities. And hey why not find a man for u while ur at it ;)
ie...when i said qualities, more specifically i mean, age range, hair colorm RACE(S), height, and so forth. u get me right?
good luck
2006-06-07 00:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so lucky! I am also bi....I have talked to my husband about bringing a third person into our relationship, but he's not biting. It all sounds good to me, someone to help out in all different aspects of life. Good Luck!!!
ps Have you tried Adult Friend Finder?
2006-06-20 23:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by andieangel2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can find a bi woman at a gay bar. I don't know why you'd want another woman in the picture, but to each his own I suppose.
2006-06-07 00:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm,well my advise to u is this u both sit and talk to each other as to what u both really want always be honest with one another no matter what,hope ive helped,good luck.
2006-06-18 17:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by beckie2289 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 r u gay
2 what?
3 why
go to my ques and tell me
2006-06-07 00:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go GIRL. My husband and I share lady friends and it is awesome. We have set the rules and we play by them.
2006-06-20 08:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by melanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am open i would love to be in a threesome permantantly! e-mail me at: penguin1o1@yahoo.com and i'll give you info
2006-06-20 22:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by penguin1o1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD TRY CRAIG'S LIST. THEY HAVE IT FOR ALL MAJOR CITIES! GOOD LUCK
2006-06-20 23:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by Girlie88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋