I know you can slow down. I know that. But it is like he wants to go in reverse and do the wait and see approach. SO all I have to do is wait and see but how can I? This is so difficult. When I see him I want to be close to him. I want to hold his hand. I want to put him in my arms. I want him to put me in his. He wants to just wait and see. We ARE crazy about each other. He says he is ALL the time but "let's just wait and see." We can't even be in a casual dating situation. Is he just messing with me or does he just want to wait and see?
2006-06-06 17:14:35 · 11 answers · asked by angry@fate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i hate being so impatient
2006-06-08 02:29:00 · update #1
that sound like a typical guy get away answers for guys.....what you have to ask your self is if he started to act like this after sex..if any...if not you ask him is "what we are waiting and seeing for cause if it keeps up i'll be waiting and seeing other people".
2006-06-06 17:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by da_friendly_dominikan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably avoid situations in which you are close to him. Tell him you want a week/two-week long break and he needs to decide if he likes life better with you or without you. You need to decide the same. What does "let's wait and see" mean anyway?
2006-06-06 17:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a jerk. Sorry to say it hun but he aint ready to settle down. There might actually be someone else catching his eye. Why else would he want to wait when he can have u now?
2006-06-06 17:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see, sounds like a good idea.
2006-06-06 17:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by nomad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He is messin with you
2. He is afraid to show himself more to you
3. He is waiting for you to be the aggressive one
2006-06-06 17:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is that you have to be one stop something that got started.be women.what ever it is stop it now before get to far.because you are weak for him.you need to be strong and stick to what you want.even if you have to stop seeing him for why.until you can be steady about what you want.he will continued to go in reverse.stand back and look at from another point view.
2006-06-06 17:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't going to care what his problem is, cause you aren't there to fix his problems. You want a fully functioning guy without problems. Don't fall for that "He's just not into you" stuff, he has a real problem. I suggest you move on.
2006-06-06 17:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry chica,
Dude is messing with you...
As hard as it might be, move on!!!
Aloha!
2006-06-06 17:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the sex away... WHAt do you have..... He is no one. move on and get the guy hiding. You know who he is......
2006-06-06 17:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll be easier to just forget him and move on
2006-06-06 18:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by p_m_20001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋