2006-06-06 17:07:21 · 20 answers · asked by Sophia 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You know what... Screw him!! Which is better, having a d*ckhead around growing resentful of the baby, or having a d*ckhead's check coming in the mail every week??? No baby should have to grow up with a father that is going to keep reminding the child they didn't want them. I know it is scary and hard, but for your child's sake don't push him into being a part of the baby's life. I am sure you will provide more than enough love and he darn well better be providing child support. Do what is best for you and the baby. Godd luck and I hope it all works out!
2006-06-06 17:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by linds_a_lot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im really sorry to hear that but I can tell youfrom experience that you will be okay there are plenty of single moms out there!! The most important thing is that you take it easy and dont let this situation get the best of you...you need to be there for your baby.
2006-06-06 17:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by geet840 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably scared but dont take that as an excuse, he needs to own up and be a man, babies are blessings and u didnt get urself pregnant, seek counseling or find a trusted friend whos open to both sides to help. make sure you ask God for guidance.
2006-06-06 17:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by cherrybc032000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what if he says that to you than you don't need him. I have three kids and their father left me, but now he is trying to come back. He was only gone for a few months. That child should be your first priority. Maybe soon he'll come around. You know having a baby creates a lot of stress, especially in a relationship. But its something I know you won't regret. Just give it time.
2006-06-06 17:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by Nisi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the baby is due in a short time, stay focused on that responsibility. Calmly ask 'Hubby' if he will consider
counseling. If not, allow him to go...He might change his immature attitude after the child is born.That happens alot
Be determined not to allow this situation to rob you of the happiness you & your Baby deserve!
2006-06-06 18:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by Merry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is not all there. If he doesn't want the baby or love you, then get away from him. That's not healthy for you and the baby. Seek the support of friends and family.
2006-06-06 17:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just scare of having a baby... it is getting close to the due date and he is not sure of himself...
give him some time and support it that will help and if not then go for some consulting...
Good Luck, and everything will be fine
2006-06-06 18:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him leave and you take care of the baby and if he doesnt want to be a father then make him pay child support
2006-06-06 17:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by brittany4100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys need to work things out before this baby arrives to the world. good luck
2006-06-13 13:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then move on and let him go , there is no need for an *** in your life that will just bring you down and worry you about how you are going to raise your baby w/o him ...... you can make it on your own especially if you don't have an idiot in your life that you need to worry about ... just let him go and i know it will be hard but for your child's sake you can do it
2006-06-06 17:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by ptmamas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋