2006-06-06 17:00:45 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im 17 and he's 19
2006-06-06 17:11:40 · update #1
wait!!!!! do not ever do anything that you are uncomfortable with. go with your feelings, or you'll wind up doing something you'll regret for the rest of your life, girl. only been together 2 months? he's a little eager to jump the gun. sex should only occur between two consenting adults who know exactly what they want and have had a long time to get to really really know each other. and that line about "well, if he aint getting it from me he'll get it somewhere else" ? forget it. if he's doing that, then he really doesnt care about u in the first place. don't let him pressure u into something that you don't want to do. trust me, you will regret it later. you will know when the time is right for you, and always and without fail, use protection. no protection is 100%. are u ready to face the consequences of sex? pregnancy, STD, etc ??? just remember that a condom is not complete protection against ANY STD. skin-to-skin contact can often transmit disease, and i read somewhere that latex condoms have poor structural integrity, meaning that they have small holes in them (too small for sperm to pass) but that the holes are 50 times bigger than the actual aids virus. once is all it takes to catch ANYTHING. please be careful, and wait until the time is right for Y O U.
2006-06-18 19:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Morgan T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't force yourself to somethign you are not ready!It maybe 2 months or 3 years...it's best done when you are ready and with the right person!And if he loves you for you, i'm sure he will wait for you!Plus, some guys only want sex, after getting it they may dump you, so take your time think if it is worth it!If you are ready then go ahead!If you are not he should respect you or he is just a good for nothing pervert!Good luck! It's your life, nobody can tell you what to do but yourself!
2006-06-06 17:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by Shining StaR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no. Two months is not a lot of time together considering all of the possible consequences of having sex, in my opinion. Wait until you feel ready, and if he can't at least you know what kind of guy he really is.
2006-06-06 17:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by Babel Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months may seem like a long time when you're young but it's really not, give it some time. If he really cares about you waiting should not be a problem for him. I've got an idea, ask another question asking girls if they were happy with they're first sexual experience if not why. I'm guessing they will say that they did it too soon.
2006-06-06 17:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by alltheanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait until you are ready!! There are plenty of ways to take care of your man without having intercourse until you are ready. If you don't want any contact at all yet, tell him that too. If he can't respect your feelings then you need to find a different boyfriend.
2006-06-19 04:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and your how old?
you ready to get knocked up
be a single mother
with no hope of a good future
because single moms do not go to post education ( college, much less jr college ) like singles do, taking care of an accidental child bears much time and emtional weight, that even if they do go you end up being a poor student, job prospects do nt look much better either
but you go ahead
you be emotional
you have you 2 minutes of fun
pay for it later
2006-06-06 17:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been together with your boyfriend for two mos. and he is ready to have sex with you? what is his hurry, and doesn't he care about what you want? If I were you I would wait for at least two yrs to give him a yes, or no, answer.Remember that the guy is not the one that loses it's the girl, Do you think that he is not the kiss and tell kind of a guy?
2006-06-06 17:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready. He has to wait.
Love is not about sex. It is about being together.
Talk to him and tell him your fears. Maybe then he can understand.
When you do have sex, sometimes things change in a relationship. Do expect that if you do decide to.
I say you should wait until you are ready.
2006-06-18 05:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by javarick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready than dont, if he loves you,he can be patient and wait. But if you both do,for God's sake,have protection against STD's and unwanted pregnancy!!!Unforntunatly,most,but not all boys and men think with their other head and not the one on their shoulders. If you feel you are being forced in having sex,Drop him like a hot potatoe!!!!!
2006-06-06 17:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 08:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by winstanley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋