need help still!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

i still need help on how to tell my boyfriend and mom that im pregnant and im 16.i have asked bout my pregnancy on here before and i have some really great ppl answering i even have email address but how do i tell them and when??or would it be best to run away and have the baby and not tell

Answer 1

Running away will only make things harder for you and the baby. Tell them sooner than later so that they have time to cope with the shock before you really need them. I would tell them now before you start to show or you won't need to tell them so much as to explain why you tried to hide it. Also you need to start getting checked by a doctor now to make sure you and the baby remain healthy throughout your pregnancy and delivery. That is just one more reason to tell at least your mom, so she can start helping you get the medical attention you need.

Answer 2

Look hun....

I was 15 when I got pregnant, and 16 when I had my son. Tell them that you need to talk to them and it is really important to you that they be understanding. Once they agree to that TELL THEM!! I would recommend telling them all at the same time. It is less stressful to get it all over with all at once rather than a little at a time. If you think they are going to be angry, then before you actually tell them explain to them that you need there support and not there anger. You are there daughter and they will love you no matter what. My parents took the news fairly well. I thought my dad was going to kill the guy, but after that 10 min of him being upset, he came around. Dont run away and don't be afraid. A baby is supposed to be a miracle and a blessing, not a life ruining experience.

Answer 3

Never RUN away. Eventually it will show. So just tell your boyfriend first. If he loves you, he will help you. Then you must tell your mom. SHE is your GREATEST helper. she is the one with all the answers. Sweetie I am 27 yrs old. I am a wife and mother of 3. You took a huge step in sleeping with you BF not continue to stand up and let them know. A baby is a blessing and if your able to have wether it be that your too young or older that doesn't matter. Talk to your mom, she will always be there for you...... Trust me you'll thank me later....Good luck

Answer 4

If you are pregnant you need to be the adult. running away will only make things worse. you need to just sit them down and tell them. honesty is always the best thing to do. I was 15 when I got maried the first time ( this is my second marriage) and my daughter was born 10 days after I turned 16. it is rough raising a child at that age, but you really need to sit down with everyone concerned and just tell them. Maybe they will be more understanding that you think. My mother was. Best of luck

Answer 5

you know they are going to find out sooner or later unless you run away and never tell any one, which beleive me isn't a good ideal, I did it and I ended coming back home. I created a bigger mess than I should have. You should just tell them and get over with it. It will make you feel better, even if there are some repercusions to it afterwards.

Answer 6

yeah run away no matter what you'll still need to tell them sooner or later. trust me they will be mad at first but trust me they will get over it. At least your over 15 my cusion was 12. Let them know also let them know what u want to do. Tell them in a letter or tell them together. just tell them. U might think ur life is over but your life can be worst you could have no legs and never will be able to play with your kid or you can have no hands remember this is just a bump on the road good luck

Answer 7

Don't run away. You parents may be upset at first but remember they love you and will be there for you. Running away will just make things worse. If you feel uncomfortable talking to them in a private setting try a public place.

Answer 8

tell your bf first and whatever reaction he will give, keep the baby, if he tells you to remove it, then he does not love and respect you and what you did. and tell your mom as soon as possible because she is the only person in the worl who could and would understand you, i know she will yell and cry tons of tears, but after letting her cool down and after you explain everything to her, she'll understand.im 22 and i am pregnant and i sought the help of an adoption agency becasue i was planning on putting my child on adoption, but i changed my mind when i told my parents. ur baby will be the one to protect u when the day comes so dont remove your baby. choose a day when u n ur mom are home and start telling her, i could still remember my words to my mom and dad, they were " mom, dad, remember you told me before that if ever i have any problem i should come to you for help and advice? i have a problem and i dont know what to do.. im sorry for this disappointment but please listen to me first, im pregnant, about 5 months now..please help me.." i cried n my mom cried but she said i should keep the baby and if the father of my kid doesnt want to have the baby, the hell with him. i am lucky though, my baby's father married me ( i proved that he loves me so much)...now im on my 7th month of my pregnancy... email me if u have any more questions and im glad to help... tell ur mom everything..your burden will lessen.. goodluck

Answer 9

Don't run away! You need to be around the people you love, your family.
My sister went through this situation. She called someone in the family that she knew would help her deliver the message. In ther case it was my wife. Together they found a solution. And I am happy to report that she had her baby and everybody love them both.
Everything will be alright.
Here is my wife's e-mail:[e-mail] if you need to ask anything.
Best of luck!

Answer 10

tell your mom that you really need to talk to her and what you are about to tell her will probably get her angry and upset but you need her guidance, love, support & understanding .. i'm pregnant and so so is the father. tell your mom first & then tell your boyfriend and remember you didn't get this way by yourself so don't let him make you feel that it's your fault. don't runaway that will only make things worse. tell them both as soon as possible waiting will only make it harder on you. good luck.