What do u do when u love someone but ur not inlove with them. But ur VERY good friends.. A romance almost happened over 5-6 yrs ago but never happened. (something blocked it) and he still wants u desperately. Yet ur on the verge of being married and u have a child. Ur inlvoe with someone else. u tell him this repeatedly and he knows it all too well. HELP!
2006-06-06 16:46:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't even bother wasting your time explaining to him anymore, try ignoring him that always works.
2006-06-06 16:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by LilSo1287 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is why you can't remain friends with your ex
sex ALWAYS gets in the way
it also shows your poor choice in men ( in this case he's more like boy ), as he is not mature enough to let you go, and not confident that he cannot find another
after all, you DID
you only choice is to cut off communication with him all together
do not retun his calls
change you number, unlisted, use call blocking with caller id,
any form of communication will be seen by him as you showing interest, even however slight...
if he persists file a restrianing order against him
basically you going to end up being a b i t c h to him, but it wil be necessary, as you are an enabler by even talking to him,
he need a mental a s s kicking and maybe even a physical one too
2006-06-06 23:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear u must be soooooo hypnotic & charming that that man is still wooing uuuuu.he must be good person as he is u r friend,but love ,romance ,sex is different.human mind is complex what it require * when & why , no one knows.for a lasting relation u r chemistry & his chemistry should match.like animals we also spreads our fragerance & when our astral fragerance matches deep rooted relations appear .may be if u are asian it is past birth fulfillment may be keeping u togather & time hs not matured that he may get u in a way he likes u physically
2006-06-07 00:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by vijay_munshi36364 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being his very good friend. As long as you maintain a level of emotional intimacy with him, he is going to believe he has a chance. Obviously telling him the reality of your situation has not helped him to move on. So you have to.
2006-06-06 23:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by janinenc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I nodded off half way through that....just move or something...leave your problems behind
2006-06-06 23:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats on him. there is only so much a person can take. if that were me, he'd be pushing me away even for a friendship.
2006-06-06 23:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by sball124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the idiot, do not screw up your marriage
2006-06-07 00:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by nomad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋