we have these friends husband and wife.. they come to our house any time they wont and stay as long as they wont. we go to there house maby 1 a year. the other night we went to there house and we all stayed outside untill about 10;30 they went inside and never came back out . dident say by dident invite us in ...they just walked away and went inside and dident even say i will see you later or nothing.what would you all think if you were done like that?
2006-06-06 16:37:48 · 11 answers · asked by purple 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
id like to add we have knowed these people for about 10 yrs.thanks to all ..
2006-06-06 16:52:56 · update #1
i would like to add that we dont invite them to our house they just drop in without even telling us they are comming.
2006-06-17 15:31:01 · update #2
I sure wouldn't want to be treated in that way. I don't think I'd keep them on my list of friends! I don't think you should either. You deserve better treatment than that!
2006-06-06 16:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ryans Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first thing that comes to mind is that these people are extremely rude and have absolutely NO social skills. Given that they went inside and never came back outside to invite you in or bid you farewell, I definitely think they are rude and have as much class as an elephant. As the hosts it is their responsibility to invite the guests into the home once it gets dark so that the evening can continue, or establish - by verbalizing their needs - that the evening has come to a close due to schedules, other plans, etc. Leaving you outside is a sign of disrespect to you,as their guests and friends.
And if it were done to me? Well, aside from being really pissed off, I can guarantee you dollars to donuts that I would not invite them to my house again. Ever. Nor would I invest my precious time and energy in cultivating a friendship with them.
However, to be fair I think you should discuss this with them before you give them the old "heave ho" and dump them from your social circle. It could all be a simple misunderstanding on everyone's part. You might want to ask them about it (calmly and rationally) and ask them if you offended them or explain that you weren't sure the visit was over. If you did offend them, you can make amends by apologizing to them (or taking the "high road", or rather a positive, humble approach) as a way to resolve the issue. But if you didn't offend them and they chose this as their way to curtail the evening, kiss them goodbye and make some better, and more socially skilled friends.
2006-06-17 09:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that it was rather rude. If they wanted you to leave they could have at least said it was getting late and they better call it a night.
2006-06-06 23:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by jojo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think that they were very rude and there not realy your friends..next time they come over do it to them and see how they like it,or just talk to them and ask why they did it
2006-06-06 23:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by Joker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very rude. since you only visit them rarely, you should burn their house
2006-06-06 23:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by superbry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think that they are rude and really arent your friends. if they were your friends they should treat you better.
2006-06-06 23:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by nawnndawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think that was rude and stuck up of them
2006-06-13 18:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is definitely rude... if i were you, should they try to visit, i wouldnt let them in...
2006-06-17 18:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by prettybitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how rude, sure they are your friends?
2006-06-17 13:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
these "friends" are very rude!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-16 20:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋