Does he needs his space and still loves me, did he ever loved me or fell out of love?

Question

I was dating this guy who has eyed me since four to six months before we ever met, without me even knowing he was checking me out. I had seen him once at a night club and left an impression on me but never saw him again until...A month later after the club was over he send his friend to say hi to me (January 5, 2006). Long story short, we started dating up until June 04, 2006, when he broke up with me, one day before our 5th month anniversary. I had no clue this was coming. We probably had as little as 2 or 3 differreces of opinion (not argument ofr fights) througout our relationship. We were intimate a week before he dumped me and say he loved me on the phone two days before the breakup. He claims he is not seeing another person, but states he needs his space and to find himself so he can provide quality in his relationships (he does not mention anythying about our relationship). He said he does not feel the same attraction but says he loves me. Should I wait? Is he afraid to commit?

Answer 1

Why should you wait? He is not waiting, I am sure. Give him all the space he needs and move on. You don't need this kind of turmoil.

Answer 2

Hell No! I left my abusing husband for a guy that sound's the exact same , he loved me so much but then after we we're bed buddies he said I need my own space and treated me like sh*t but ask me all the time to wait for him that he still loved loved me just had to collect himself , it's a act , they will keep you hanging just because they know you will wait ,it's a game to these a**holes .Pick yourself up and go find you a real man and not a momma's boy. Good Luck !

Answer 3

The guy sounds flaky to me. You deserve better. Was you intimacy the week before, the first time with him? If so, could it be that was all he was after?

Answer 4

move on !! he's just not into you anymore....