wat do u ladies look for when u looking to for that special someone?

Answer 1

i have a story for this...this is nice...read through

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he
was pursuing the question "What kind of man are
you looking for?"
She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in
the eye and asking "Do you really want to know?"

Reluctantly, he said "Yes." She began to
expound..." As a woman in this day and age, I am
in a position to ask a man what he can do for me
that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I
take care of my household with out the help of any
man...or woman for that matter. I am in the
position to ask "What can you bring to the table?"

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she
was referring to money. She quickly corrected his
thought and stated "I am not referring to money. I
need something more. I need a man who is striving
for perfection in every aspect of life." He sat
back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her
to explain.
She said, "I am looking for someone who is
striving for perfection mentally because I need
conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need
a simple minded man.

I am looking for someone who is striving for
perfection spiritually because I don't need to be
unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers
is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for perfection
financially because I don't need a financial
burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive
enough to understand what I go through as a woman
but strong enough to keep me grounded.

I am looking for someone who I can respect. In
order to be submissive, I must respect him. I
cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking
care of his business. I have no problem being
submissive...he just has to be worthy. God made
woman to be a help mate for man. I can't help a
man if he can't help himself." When she finished
her spiel, she looked at him.

He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He
said "You are asking a lot."

She replied "I am worth a lot."

Answer 2

For me when I was looking for the special someone I looked for many different things. I looked for respect, trust, the way the man attracts, if they had a good heart,and most importantly I was on the search for honesty and communication.With all of this I found my match

Answer 3

I know what type of guy I want
He has to have a sense of humour
Be caring
Gentle and kind
Have a good personality
Be affectionate
Respects himself and others.
Knows his own mind
I like guys who are intelligent and out going
Someone who is willing to take the time to get to know me
that the kinda of man Id want

paul

Answer 4

I look for friendship first.. For me it encompasses allot of different aspects like respect, honesty, trust, etc etc.It also gives you the chance to get to know someone properly before committing yourself to any kind of relationship. It allows you to see the person in their true light.
But to be honest, i would rather not have this blueprint of how this person should be and just allow myself to be open to the prospect of loving someone i may have never considered a prospect.

Answer 5

Intelligence
Genuine sense of humour
Ability to love, nurture, care for me
Cool calm nature
A strong belief in God and Jesus Christ
Desire to have children and the right temprament (sp) for children
A good work ethic and oodles of ambition
Confidence without arrogance
A healthy sexual appetite
Generosity
An ability to communicate with me
A passionate nature
And lastly that undefineable something that fuels my desire for him

Answer 6

I look for, oh where to beginm,
he has to be nicely built with a great smile and sense of humour, good looks go without saying.
He has to like me for me not because I have a good job and a car, he'll grow to know everything about me without me having to explain.

If only............

Answer 7

the thing i look for is someone who likes me for me, they have to be at least some what smart. and has to be someone who is going to treat me with respect.

Answer 8

well me, i look for a good personality, I like for him to be funny but not act total dumb. I like a romantic person and a gentleman

Answer 9

A trusting,charming,interesting person that can rock there world!!!!!

Answer 10

caring