my best friend doesn't get along with my boyfriend what should i do????????

Answer 1

Stop trying to make them get along and don't hang out with them at the same time.
They probably don't like the idea of having to share you.

Answer 2

Well, in my experience, it means one of two things. Either she is jealous that you spend all of your time with him or she knows he is no good for you. I have felt both ways at different times towards my bff's boyfriends. She wouldn't listen to me about the guy that was "no good." I hounded her forever it seems like. It took a few months but I gradually just pushed her more and more to leave him.

After the fact, she admitted what he was like. They were together for about 9 months and she said he was very controlling. He didn't like it when she talked to her friends or did something without him. He called her constantly to see what she was doing. The worst part was, he would all but force her to have sex with him. He used the old "if you love me" crap on her. She didn't even realize all this until she left him. Then she came to me and said, "I should have listened to you."

So if I were you, I would talk to my best friend. Spend the afternoon together and really give her the chance to explain how she is feeling. You two probably need that time to talk and repair hard feelings.

Answer 3

There must be a reason for this.. Usually it depends on the party that is causing the upset. If your best friend is causing the issue, then may be she feels threatened that you may not have enough time to spend with her, or because she thinks you're boyfriend is not good enough.

Like, she may be jealous that you have a great boyfriend.
OR
She is a real TRUE friend and thinks you Deserve someone better.

Answer 4

If they don't like each other it might not be a good idea to try and get them together, because what if they end up liking each other too much. If u know what I mean, so leave well enough alone. And just hangout with her as u do and hang with him as u do and don't try to push them together. And if they put u end a way to chose who u should be with then pick the freidn because u can always get another b/f

Answer 5

It's probably a conflict of who gets your time. Make sure your man knows how much your friend means to you and vice versa with your friend. Let her know look this is who im dating now and I really like him. And let him know look this girl has been there for me through a lot and I can't have you two fighting all the time. If they both love you, they will work a way through it.

Answer 6

clashes among your best friend and boyfriend are hard to withstand because you love your boyfriend and you're willing to stand up to your friends for him but you know that when you're boyfriend's not there, your friends always will. don't choose sides. just talk to your friend and lover about it and tell them how uncomfortable it is to have them not get along.

Answer 7

I think you should talk to your friend and your boyfriend. You should tell your friend that she has her opinions and you have yours, and that u really like your boyfriend. And if she is really your friend she will understand and at least try not 2 fight with your boyfriend. And then talk to your boyfriend and tell him, if he is around your friend, try not to give her anything to fight about.

Answer 8

ya, i've been there before! What you should do is tell your friend that you really care about him, but you really care about her too, so your not going to do anything to get rid of him. She should understand. And if they don't get any better then don't hang out with them at the same time.

Answer 9

Who do you love more Boyfriend or best Friend?
Tell her you love your B/F and if she's a true friend she'll be there for you no matter if she likes him or not.

Answer 10

just dont hang out with them at the same time.

if its really nessassary for them to get along, just sit them both down together and tell them that it bugs you and could they at least try to get along with eachother while you are around.