2006-06-06 15:54:02 · 3 answers · asked by lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can't force her to forget someone who left an imprint on her. especially not if it was her first love. what you can do, though, is listen. don't get jealous or hurt if you realize she's thinking about him. if she mentions something about him, don't back away. it's as though she pleads for you to help her let out what's inside. just ask her questions. pamper her with your comfort. :)
2006-06-06 16:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by mary. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a person has every right to grieve over a lost love.. we all need that chance to mend our broken hearts.. but they shouldn't compare now to then ,, or so on so forth.. my husband allowed me the chance to make amends with my x boyfriend.. he and i dated for 2 years were both married now .to different people.. there is nothing my x can do 2 me but gain but friendship.. so just be supportive of her desions
2006-06-06 23:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by Get_Cha_Some 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, just love her/him- and never, ever criticize her old lover, and never agree he's Mr. Wonderful either.
2006-06-06 22:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋