How come men are easy to move on than women?

Question

moving on is hard especially on women's part..it will took months and sometimes years to move on..but men they just dont care..why its so easy for them to move on and just forget evrything eventhough he still cares??

Answer 1

women put everything they have in a relationship these includes their time, effort, emotions, riches and even their bodies. they tend to give their best in a relationship hoping that it will last a long time. they are so emotional than men. i believe this is the reason why men move on easily than women.

Answer 2

I would argue this point with you. I think it depends on who dumps/falls out of love with who.


However, you can still make a case that men move on easier than women using a scientific argument.

From an evolutionary standpoint, women can produce a small number of eggs, while men can fertilize a large number of them. If women want to pass on their genes, they pay a higher "investment cost" than men do. This high cost makes women more involved in relationships.


You can also possibly answer this question from a physiological standpoint. Women's hormones like estrogen and oxytocin might play a larger role in emotional bonding than was ever thought. In a recent study, participants snorted oxytocin up their nose before engaging in financial transactions. The control group snorted salt water. The study found that those people who snorted oxytocin were more likely to trust their partner with much more money, i.e. men can move on easier because hormones make women nuts : )

So, to conclude: I personally think men can have just as hard a time to move on as women do. However, you could make an argument along neuroeconomical, evolutionary psychology, or physiological grounds for women taking breakups harder than men.

Answer 3

I think it's because it's typical of women to analyze and sometimes overanalyze every detail, to follow all the what ifs. If I had been this way more, would we still be together, or if I hadn't said or done this......
I think a man might do it for a little while, but most men seem able to be emotionally unavailable while still being able to satisfy a physical need. Women tend to link the two things together.
Fastest way to help yourself move on is to try thinking like a man for a couple days. Sometimes pretending not to care makes it a reality.

Answer 4

Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus. Some mens' egos are big , He will not show that a woman has hurt them,and they pretend to move on.. Go slow , take your time, If love does happen and it will grow in time or fail.Just because girl has sex with guy doesn't mean he loves her, even if he says he does.It can be same way with a woman.

Answer 5

men dont really mov eon that quick they just move on in the sense they get out there quicker than we do they dont show emotions in the same way as we do but very much in there heart they still remember us especially if we were a really special part of there heart

Answer 6

They most likely still care but men dont show thier emotions in that way! Just cuz they see other girls doesnt mean they are healed it just means they are horny! The more girls they are with the more thier so called status is boosted ya know!!!

Answer 7

a part of life is moving on, is not that men dont care or what not is that is in the nature of men to be stronger, its like the unwriten laws of male behavior.

Answer 8

cause we be hard headed.. however if we do love the person and find ourselfs. well in my case.. seeing that there is no future, just a sexual one then i moved on.. iam going to be horny and all but is the best for both of the parties.

Answer 9

because us women are more emotional than men. yes it sucks! plus men have to save their ego and make sure no one sees the hurt on their face.

Answer 10

Men arent as sensitive as women...some men just dont care as long as they are getting laid....