she has stopped talking to me for the past one and a half yrs.
it hurts a lot.
2006-06-06 14:23:44 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
time to move on to better girls! You're wasting time on something you can't change!
2006-06-06 14:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by SolMan 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There has to be a reason why she doesn't talk to you anymore. Maybe its because you say you were in love with her and she didn't feel the same way? They say time heals all wounds, so she must have roughed you up pretty bad emotionally if you are still not over her. I've been in a similar situation, so I do understand. If this is the only girl that you feel that you have loved, you are going to have to let her go. Try looking for similar qualities in other girls, or go the other route and find someone who doesn't remind you of her. But try to get over this the best you can.
2006-06-06 14:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by bboytwogun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have left this simmering for a long time. There would have been a reason for the change in your relations with this girl. Did you ever try and find out what changed? If you feel that you can't `let go' then I would be doing something to find out WHY. Can you send her a [polite] letter, let her know you need `closure' and ask her to supply the necessary information so that you can let go [or whatever, depending on her response]
For future reference, don't let something happening like that `wait' for if you do, you risk being stuck with `no answer'.
Good luck with this.
2006-06-06 14:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try calling her and if that doesnt work, you know that she has moved on and maybe you should too.
also you might want to approach her like a friend not someone who wants only to hook up. Maybe she got the wrong idea first off-hand. Dont try moving too fast or you might get burned and end up disappointed. Remember that few girls want a all-physical relationship. Try being a friend and let things blossom from there!
2006-06-06 14:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can not hate you all of a sudden and without any reason.
She was not in love with you as you were in love with her otherwise you would have patched up your differences.
Forget her and look for another girl your star is still shining
2006-06-08 23:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by emirateswonder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i believe that writing her a letter first telling her how you feel about her and that fact that you guys don't talk anymore. if you don't have a clue why she hates you ask her to explain because you really don't know what happened. but if you do know then apologize and ask her if she would be open to meeting you for coffee to discuss this further and if she says no then move on and know that you gave it your best shot. thats what i would do
2006-06-06 14:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason. Try to talk with her, find out what happened and try to fix it together. If she still refuses to talk with you, leave her. It would be a torment for both of you to stay in such a relation.
2006-06-06 21:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by Aurora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF SHE HAS BECOME ALLERGIC TO YOU AND HOW IT WAS WHEN IT WAS GOOD,
SHE EITHER FOUND SOMEONE ELSE
YOU TURNED HER OFF
SHE NEEDS TO GO ON AND IS NOT READY FOR WHAT IS HAPPENING OR DOES NOT LIKE IT,
OR YOU HURT HER (HOPEFULLY NOT)
BELIEVE ME, A WOMAN, THE BEST WAY TO GET HER BACK IF POPSSIBLE IS TO "LIVE WELL" be HAPPY, CHEERFUL, AND NOT AVAILABLE
NOT AVAILABLE,
NOT AVAILAABLE,
NO ONE LIKES "NEEDY PERSONS, EMOTIONAL MARSHMELLOWS, OR
WEAK DESPERATE PEOPLE TRYING TO HANG ON
ON THE OTHER HAND, BECOME MORE INTERESTING,AND INTERESTED IN OTHER PERSONS, ACTIVITIES, ECT, AND SHE MAY BE IMPRESSED
BUT WATCH OUT, SHE MAYJUST TEST YOU TO SEE IF YOUO DROP WHAT YOUR DOING FOR HER,, THEN YOU WILL REALLY LOOSE GROUND
GOOD LUCK
IT HURTS,
I HAVE BEEN DUMPED AND DID IDIOTIC INSANE THINGS TO GET ATTENTION, AND ONLY MADE A FOOL OF MYSELF
THE BEST REVENGE, IS TO LIVE WELL,
SOMEONE IS OUT THERE WHO WILL LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU WANT
I PROMISE, I PROMISE SO LET GO, BE AGENTLEMAN, DO NOT GET PETTY
RUDE OF BAD MOUTH HER IN FACT, HAVE CLASS, AND ACT LIKE A WISE OLD SOUL
2006-06-06 14:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find another girl - there are a lot out there. Get involved in some volunteer work - and check out the girls doing volunteer work.
2006-06-06 14:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by fatsausage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the reason for such drastic changes in behavior towards you; They should have given you an explanation.
Find out why ???
2006-06-06 14:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by belledejourdenoir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on...don't waste precious time over what could have been...look to the future and the endless possibilities
2006-06-06 14:28:07 · answer #11 · answered by EHRIAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋