Below is the history and problem I had earlier, Its already answered, I have a new problem, I'm jelous of bob, she likes him better even though we're BFF's. She is always making me so mad, but worships bob. Even though they're not dating. I want to be her BFF again, I want to not be jelous, I want to talk to her about this and yet i don't. Help me!!!!!!!!
Ok so we're both Juniors in high school, we've been best friends since 7th grade. She met bob (*his name isn't really bob) last year and they also became best friends. My friend and bob have been flirting with each other like crazy (But thats how they've always been, always flirting with each other) but now their flirting more than ever. He told her when their friendship began that they would never be more than friends. But now she's thinking that he likes her but is afraid to say anything, because she might ruin the friendship. Not telling him is killing her, all her friends say tell him (Including me) Should she tell him?
2006-06-06 14:03:49 · 14 answers · asked by Emily C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you should tell your friend how you feel! that happened to me once. If she gets mad at you and everything just say how you feel! don't be mean. but just tell her that you think she should spend a little more time with you. its ok if shes with bob but she should be equally being with you too! so just tell her how you feel! i think i'd e-mail her and tell her how you feel! good luck!
e-mail me and tell me how it went at jchooper3@yahoo.com let he decide on her own but if i was her then i would tell bob!
2006-06-06 14:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by ♥►Missy◄♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your friends should tell bob (or whatever his name is) that she likes him. It is the only way to get things straight and not leave things hanging. It is the only way to find out and not leave it a mysiery. If Bob is a good friend, friendship will not be ruined. friendship is only ruined if the person thinks it is weird or there is no friendship between them so they brake apart.
2006-06-06 21:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him. If he isnt gay, doesnt have a GF already, and she is cute/pretty then he will most likely WANT her. Or at worst he will just be flattered. Go ahead and tell her to bite the bullet and do it. She could email him or text msg him on his cell if she doesnt want to tell him face to face. If he gives her a negative response "oh i dont like you that way etc" She could play it off and say OH NO! That email/ text went to YOU! Im so sorry i like (some other guy) and thought i was sending it to him. Or she could say she wanted his OPINION on the email before she sent it to (another guy) :) Be tricky.
2006-06-07 00:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know it! even though if he says no they can still be friends i mean its not like they "cant" ever be friends again! jsut tell her to let it all out. tell him. i had to go through telling a guy that i liked for 5 months that i liked him, it all turned out good. just tell her to go for it! GOOD LUCK! and dont worry u will still be BFF's a relationship shouldnt make a friendship tear!
2006-06-06 21:08:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll date, and you stay her friend! When they split...you and her will still be best friends. This is all so long as you yourself are not interested in Bob, talk to her with your mom sometime about this, it will find a way of resolving. goodluck
2006-06-06 21:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait it out if you really want her for a friend but if she isn't being a friend to you, then why bother. sounds like you might be interested in "bob" yourself to me
2006-06-06 21:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by aj351m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to tell him just to see what he'll say and if he says no then she can just be friends with him..as for you don't be like that about a friend. it makes it seem like you're begging her to talk to you...don't sink that low..if she wants to ignore you and not be bff's with you then just forget her..make new friends... you're a junior in high school forget about all this freshman drama...
2006-06-06 21:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by melissa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously likes her. All the flirting? The closeness? And if she likes him back, go for it.
2006-06-06 21:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Melonball 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA BIG PROBLEM. I THINK YOU NEED TO TALK TO BOTH OF THEM AT THE SAME TIME ABOUT THIS. TELL THEM EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL. DON'T BE TOO WORRIED, ITS NATURAL FOR YOU TO FEEL THIS WAY AND I'M SURE THEY WILL BOTH UNDERSTAND
-GOOD LUCK
2006-06-06 21:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel and why u dont like theother friend and tell her i want you to know so i could get it off my chest
2006-06-06 21:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋