okay im bi, and i have a thing for my best firned. the thing iz i have a bf and i told him cuz i dont keep secrets from him. after i told him he got all quiet and his voice changed really bad. and i asked him if he waz okay but he said everything waz fine. and like a few seconds later, he hung up the phone and he tol me he luvs me in a pissed of way. he know da gurl i like and he always hangs out wit her. he knew i waz bi and that one day i waz gonna like a gurl. y iz he acting like dat? and y do i have a thing for my best firend? i feel like a backstabbed my bf and i feel really bad. what should it do?
2006-06-06 13:59:03 · 7 answers · asked by butterfly121393 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is feeling threaten that you might want some else instead of him. I would sit him down and talk it out. Let him know that you still want him to be part of your life (if that's what you want). My question to you is do you plan to act on your feelings for your best friend? How will she react to you, do you know? You could end up losing and BF and a best friend....something to think about.
2006-06-06 14:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by DOC 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 04:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by vanderbilt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might feel as if you might leave him for the girl. What may hurt more is that he knows who she is. Think to yourself if you are bi or just have a bf to cover up the fact that you are gay. Make a decision before you lead him on and break his heart.
2006-06-06 14:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ramona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must be impressed by what u told him. just let time go and if he keeps acting that way then go up to him and ask why he is acting like that. maybe cuz u have been with her 4 a long time and know how she is and you like the way she is. you should tell him that you never meant to hurt him that it would have been worst if u wouldnt have told him. if u luv him then try to fix up things, and if u dont then try to keep his friendship ,but give him time.
2006-06-06 14:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anaira9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MEN CAN GET REAL WEIRD WITH THIS. MEN FIND IT SOMETIMES A THREAT WHEN TWO WOMEN FIND THEY LIKE EACH OTHER AND CAN MAKE IT ON THEIR OWN---HA! WITHOUT A MAN!!!!!!!! OTHERS HAVE A SEXUAL THING AND THIS IS THE #1 FANTASY MEN HAVE--TWO WOMEN *******. YEAH WELL, GIVE HIM SOME SPACE. HE'LL ADJUST OR HE WON'T. MY ADVICE IS NOT TO SWEAT IT. MAYBE YOU BOTH SHOULD DOUBLE DATE . THE THREE OF YOU SHOULD HANG OUT AS FRIENDS TOGETHER TO CLOSE THE AXWARDNESS. BUT FOR NOW, GIVE HIM A FEW DAYS OF SPACE. SOME MEN JUST CAN'T DEAL WHEN IT'S FACING THEM. RENT THE MOVIE"SHE HATE ME" AND THEN YOU CAN GET A BETTER IDEA, OF WHAT I MEAN.
2006-06-06 14:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he feels hurt. Thats all i could say.
2006-06-06 14:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he met be hurting becaues wht you said
2006-06-06 14:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋