2006-06-06 13:56:56 · 37 answers · asked by poohbear 1 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
Freak out and leave after bitching him out to worry him, then maybe key the whore's car, go back to my boyfriend and figure out what to do from there... if you've never cheated on him and you've been together a long time, it's probably unforgivable, and if you stay with him you're relationships going to be horrible from that point on anyway because the trust has been broken. So I'd leave him then. I've been with my boyfriend for four years, and if I found out he had sex with some other girl, I'd definitely go insane for a while.
2006-06-06 14:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Katlyn ♥ Disney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be one calm ************. When I found out from my BEST FRIEND that she had been messing around with MY BOYFRIEND for weeks and had been lying about it, I was totally pissed! I dumped the guy and told my friend to **** off.
This was 8th grade. I don't know how old you are or how serious your relationship is, but you need to go to your lover and tell them you know. If you're not too angry to storm off or scream at them, which you don't seem to be, then you need to ask what is going on.
If your lover is really regretful of their cheating then you need to make it clear that you are in control. Don't let them walk all over you or persuade you to feel any kind of way. Always keep them on their toes.
2006-06-06 14:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Brackalicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. make sure that it is true.
2. Get facts (proof)
3. Confront them with it (let them have their say)
4. Hear them out, and then...
5. Make your decision to either stay with them, or leave them.
I am very glad that my wife gave me a second chance. We do it, cause we think we won't get caught. We don't do it cause we don't want to be with our spouses. It is an ego thing. "Others want me too." I realized that I would lose the love of my life, over this EGO thing... I got a second chance, and I am very grateful. We have been married for 16 years, 2 kids, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE.
I am a firm believer of a second chance. But you must make your own decision. All situations are different, kids, no kids, house, no house. Hope this helps. SEE MY HAPPY FAMILY HERE. http://profiles.yahoo.com/gorillamyke
2006-06-06 14:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave would be the average person answer but ask yourself do you really want to be with this person and for how long? Ask is this a issue you can forgive them for or will you always think of them as a cheater. You have to ask can i trust this person ever again. Because without trust there is no relationship. Thats the anser i think it lies right there Trust, can we still have that?
2006-06-06 14:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by knowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... dumping them is the obvious choice but it really depends on the situation...
Sometimes, a couple can survive cheating and it can become a really strong relationship (if the partner who cheated is sorry for what he/she did and is really willing to re-gain the other person's trust and to commit to the relationship).
The proof: I cheated on a guy (who is now my fiancé) and I did tell him I did. I felt really bad after cheating so I swore to myself I'd never do it again, and i sticked to my word. I am now happily engaged to this man who I truly love.
Cynthia
2006-06-06 14:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are cheating on you then you need to break up with them. It all depends on how serious you are I guess but if it were me I would break up. There are too many diseases out there to take the risk and once a cheater always a cheater. They obviously are not serious or just do not care if they go elsewhere. Life is too short to sell yourself short.
2006-06-06 14:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by shywittty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my favorite methods is taking ALL of his possessions, breaking the important ones, throwing the rest in his car, and spray painting "CHEATING BOYFRIEND" on the side. Maybe a few fires... why not throw some rabid cats in there too? *grins*
In all seriousness, leave him. Not worth it.
2006-06-06 14:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its just a boyfriend, not a husband, so yeah, i know it hurts, but its better now than if you had been married 15 years with 5 kids. just dump him now and never, EVER talk to him again, he's not worth the time and energy.
2006-06-06 14:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...These questions, sometimes...
That is one-hundred percent up to you.
If it's a first time, and you're willing to forgive...go for it.
Maybe it was a moment of temporary insanity...
If it's just about the zillionth time he's/she's done it, I would suggest reconsidering the relationship.
The fact that you're asking probably means this is the first time...
And it should be up to you, and on how you feel.
2006-06-06 14:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by DoloresHaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i found out that my ex had cheated on me( we were together at the time.) i confronted him, he said he would not do it again. but i knew that once a guy cheats he will do it again. so i left him, kicked him in the nuts.
2006-06-06 14:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋