i think i am fat ( my friends say i am not, but i think so) and i need help on what to do. i need serious help!!!
2006-06-06 13:38:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Just look confident. The more attention you draw to it, the more "fat" you'll look.
Just don't worry about it... everyone is insecure about their body.
2006-06-06 13:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by awesomdude76 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break the ice by walking in, taking your clothes off and doing a cannonball in the pool. So what if you're fat. Everyone will be too shocked to do anything about for a minute. Then look at them all and say, "what?".
2006-06-06 13:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. There's always the kid who wears the T-shirt in the pool. You will stick out if you do this, but no one will make fun of you or call you out on it.
However, if they do call you out, just act natural. If they ask why you're wearing a shirt, say you're skin's too sensitive and burns easily. If they call you fat, just make a joke or ignore them.
Don't freak out about the party, they are fun!! And who cares if you are fat, everyone thinks they are fat. Just go out and wear your suit, because it's going to get hot.
2006-06-06 13:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Brackalicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i'm fat too, but really i'm not. i'd be embarrased too. but the truth is that if you act confident and just let go of the low self esteem that you're holding onto, nobody will even notice the extra pounds (if there are any). Honestly -it's not how you look, it's how you present yourself. Have you ever been to a strip club? There are tons of ugly/fat strippers -and they make tons of money. why? because they have confidence. remember that and you'll be fine.
2006-06-06 13:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Emmers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just jump on in the water and have fun!!! Don't be worrying if your over weight. If your friends say your not it must be in your head.
BUT IF YOU MUST FREAK OUT TRY
Wear baggy shorts and a tank top stay out of water. Hang around the pool with your friends.
The best thing to do is have fun!!!
:)
2006-06-06 13:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a tank on top until the last minute...then right when your getting into the pool take it off. At least you're not a girl, we have to wear really LITTLE bathing suits - APPRECIATE being male!
2006-06-06 13:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by beauvoir_babe1865 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely, if people don't think you're fat, you obviously don't look fat. if your friends are really telling you the truth you have nothing to worry about. just forget about it and have fun. if you start complaining about it, people are gonna start thinking you really are fat, but if you act like a male supermodel, you'll look skinny. it's all about the illusion. be confident and have fun!
2006-06-06 13:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Riley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So don't go swimming. Leave you clothes on. What's the problem...I suspect that once you get there and see what everyone else looks like, you won't be nearly as embarrassed as you think.
2006-06-06 13:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you maybe over reacting go and have fun don't worry have a great time. if you are really having a problem you need to see a doctor and have him talk with you about your weight and he can help.
2006-06-06 13:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of that bikini seems superb. Your physique is warm. you have have been given a greater than established volume of weight on you, yet once you distribute it stunning (like it sounds such as you do), you seem superb. you have relatively vast, stable-looking **** so i'm guessing individuals will think of you seem stable, extremely of thinking of you as fat.
2016-11-14 07:28:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋