I've been going out with a guy with 10 months and we've broken up numerous times and I don't like him anymore. but when we break up I end up saying yes again but i dont have those kinds of feelings for him anymore.
2006-06-06 13:38:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
time to move on.... change your life... tell him NO... make the rules and stick to them..... the more you give in to him the more he will stick to you .... STOP giving him mixed signals and move on ............ God bless
2006-06-06 13:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get strong and move on! You need to learn how to say NO! It's not fair to him that you keep going back and giving him the wrong signs and it's not fair to you because it's keeping you from being able to meet guys that you would have those feelings for. If you get tempted to go back to him, think about your dream guy and all the things he would be and all the things he would do for you - then when you look at this guy, he'll be such a loser compared to what you really want that you won't want to go back to him.
Good luck!
2006-06-06 20:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by trust me, I know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be his best friend if you told him you were sorry, but the relationship is not going to work. Your feelings have changed and it would not be good to continue the relationship that hasn't really worked for 10 months.
2006-06-06 20:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong dam-it and let him go. Don't feel sorry for him. If he wants to cry like a big baby that's not your problem. Grow a back bone or better yet let your back bone stick out.
2006-06-06 20:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not with the guy....it is YOU! You have a relationship problem and self-esteem problem. Get some help and stop repeating bad behaviors and making bad decisions!
2006-06-06 20:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your time wanting to be with him when you dont have feelings for him anymore? Try to get to know someone else, dont be with someone if you dont have feelings for them anymore.
2006-06-06 20:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by It's my life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. First of all, all htose gmes of on and off is because people become very indecisive on their lives. You know you and you know what is best for you, so with that said, life is too short for games, please live your life and enjoy it. You do not need the drama or the stress!!
2006-06-06 20:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by Dawna R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really need to et out of this relationship, if you don't have feelings for him like you use to just explain this to him and tell him that u don't think that this relationship is going to work and you wanna end it on good terms
2006-06-06 20:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by ladylibra247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend usually helps ... by kicking your brains in when you feel like saying yes again... if you are weak, then u need a support system
2006-06-06 20:42:48 · answer #9 · answered by Shangri-La 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like my moms relationship with her b/f.....i think u should just leave...why waste your time if your not happy, you could be with some one u are happy with right now, not this jerk off.but mabey somewhere deep down inside u feel love for him, and that what holding you back.?
2006-06-06 20:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by sexc_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to leave. You have no man now.
2006-06-06 20:46:12 · answer #11 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋