I dont know what to do, i think i am pregnant, but at this time i cant have a baby, i have one that is 2 years old. and i am already doing it alone. his father left me when i was 5 months pregnant. and the guy who i might be pregnant by now, well we are no longer together, and i dont want another baby daddy. and i also dont believe in aborshin. what should i do. i am going crazy with this in my head. please somone help me.
2006-06-06 13:26:47 · 17 answers · asked by xosweet16ox 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i dont agree to either abortion or adoption...girl, life is a "precious" gift from God...keep ur baby. there is no wrong being single mom of two kids having different dads and wrong, is commiting abortion or throwing away ur own flesh and blood. stand out girl u can do it i know u can, have faith in GOD.
2006-06-06 13:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by jen h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear of your dilemma.
Before you start to stress too much, my advice is to take a pregnancy test. Have you missed a period yet? That is when the results of a test are most accurate. If you still have a few days to go, wait and test on the day your period is due. A lot of home pregnancy tests aren't very accurate before that time.
Sometimes, stressing about the fact that you may be pregnant will cause you to miss a period. Other factors involved can also be rapid weight gain or loss, or starting a vigorous exercise routine.
If you do not want to raise the baby, my advice to you is to speak to someone from Planned Parenthood or the like. They will be able to help you make your mind up, and will listen to your feelings.
2006-06-06 13:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a crisis pregnancy center, in the yellow pages under Abortion Alternatives. Regardless if you decide to keep the baby or give the gift of adoption, they will provide the support you need. There are many stable, loving, and desperate couples who can't have children who are equally going crazy with wanting a baby to love and cherish. Thank you for not believing in abortion, there are better ways to handle a crisis pregnancy and the help you need is out there.
2006-06-06 13:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by sevenofus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, before you freak, find out if you are pregnant. Then, if you are, talk to a counselor from a Carenet Pregnancy center and make the best decision for you. There are so many people out there who would love to adopt... If you can't raise the baby on your own, someone else would be glad to raise it for you.
2006-06-06 13:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by hizkid42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out if u r pregnant if so, there are lots of people that want to have a baby that can't I would give it up.
2006-06-06 13:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Joli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of people out there that can not have children so I think your best choice would be to have the baby and put it up for adoption. That way both you and the future family will be happy. best of luck.
2006-06-06 13:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by jewels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one u dont believe in abortion and u cant have the baby, how many options are left, Adoption. i've been in a situation like this before and i'm telling you think it through, its not what you want think about that CHILD
2006-06-06 13:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by knowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down go get you a test and find out if you are then you can always put baby up for adaption or something you can try to work things out with your ex that way your not alone talk to a freind or family see if they can help you good luck
2006-06-06 13:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are so many people out there who can't have kids and would give anything for one. First, find out if you truly are pregnant and then worry about it...I'm glad that you don't believe in abortion because you would be selfish to consider that considering you abviously weren't using protection...prevention, not abortion...adoption is your solution if you are in fact pregnant.
2006-06-06 13:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by lauren0531 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could put it up for adoption.
Or if you are sure that the guy that you are no longer together with is the father, you may want to tell him just so He knows and has a chance to decide if he wants to be in your life.
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2006-06-06 13:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by nemesis60145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋