i dont know what to do, i think i am pregnant but...(read detals)?

Question

I dont know what to do, i think i am pregnant, but at this time i cant have a baby, i have one that is 2 years old. and i am already doing it alone. his father left me when i was 5 months pregnant. and the guy who i might be pregnant by now, well we are no longer together, and i dont want another baby daddy. and i also dont believe in aborshin. what should i do. i am going crazy with this in my head. please somone help me.

Answer 1

The moment you became pregnant, you lost the luxury of "freaking out" or "going crazy". You have to get yourself in line. You have one child and maybe a second on the way. First, find out if you are pregnant. Stop wondering and get facts. If you are pregnant, you have to think about the father. It is not about you and what you do or do not want. If he is a decent man, then your child deserves him. Every child deserves a father. That does not mean that you have to marry him, or continue to be his girlfriend. It only means that you have to allow him to see his child, and hopefully he will step up to the plate and be a father. You have no choice however, you are a mother already. Get a pregnancy test, then start figuring out what to do next. Babies are a gift, they should be treated as such. Things will work out. You just need to stop reacting, and start planning. I sincerely wish you the best of luck.

Answer 2

you can let a family who wants a child very much take your child and love and spoil her/him. this takes a lot of courage and love.
You can relax because two children are not harder than one and they can share and wear eachothers clothes...people will help you. You will find a man soon and you must be more chosey because the men who run away are not the ones who respect and love you.
I was in your shoes 20 years ago and I had an abortion and I regretted it every day of my life and soon after I met a man and got married and had two kids...I could have kept her and it would have been OK but I was so afraid and worried about what people were going to think.
There are many women who were pregnant when they got married, even in your grandmother's day so do not let them judge you. kids are the best thing in the world and thy love you when no one else does...use the next few months to find a better job or study a course and sign up for the chip and the WIC program so you eat right and take your flintstone vitamins so the baby is healthy and smart.
go with what is in your heart and do not sweat it my dear..be strong and you will be happy with one or two children...most women have 2 kids anyway and maybe you will meet a man who loves kids and can not have any.....
sometimes life gives you lemons...you just gotta make lemonaid with them. A child is a sweet lemonaid. I will raise your baby and when she is 18, I will buy her a mercedes like I did my daughter. I was dirt poor when I was 22, had a 2 year old and pregnant. I put myself through school and now I am single with 3 kids and they are 18, 20, and 25. I own my own home and love my job. Do what is right and love your kids and the rest will come to you...men are a dime a dozen.

Answer 3

It's crazy when people have sex and not think about the consequences. First off, this isn't about you not wanting another baby daddy or having an abortion, it is about you creating life and f ing with it. This baby did not ask to be made you and the person you slept with, chose to have pre marital sex and not do it protected. You have a child already so you know what happens when you make a baby and where babies come from. Now you need to be the adult and make the smart decision. Do you want to go through the agravating pregnancy by yourself, have another baby without the daddy's support, be depressed and probably mistreat that baby. Or do you want to go through 3 minutes maybe less of the procedure and get rid of it and get on some birth control. Make something of yourself so your child can be proud of you and provide the best for your child and when you do meet mr. right and trust me you'll know, you have as many babies as you like.

Answer 4

The thing about it is that no one can answer this question for you. Only you can since you are the one that would have to deal with the outcome. I have had many friends in your situation that decided to have an abortion and it has haunted them day by day and wonder what could have been. Some went ahead and felt that God would not make it be if you could not handle having a baby , and God will make a way. The thing is you may need to really sit down and look at your situation as well as try and feel out your ex boyfriend if you can to see how he would feel if he had child.. Remember you can get advice from everyone but the decision is yours that you have to live with....

Hope things work out for you....
Keep your head up..

Answer 5

Sorry to listen to of your quandary. Before you begin to strain an excessive amount of, my recommendation is to take a being pregnant experiment. Have you overlooked a interval but? That is whilst the outcome of a experiment are so much correct. If you continue to have a couple of days to move, wait and experiment at the day your interval is due. A lot of house being pregnant assessments are not very correct earlier than that point. Sometimes, stressing approximately the truth that you will be pregnant will motive you to overlook a interval. Other elements concerned can be speedy weight achieve or loss, or establishing a lively endeavor activities. If you don't wish to elevate the little one, my recommendation to you is to talk to anybody from Planned Parenthood or the like. They might be equipped to support you're making your brain up, and can concentrate for your emotions.

Answer 6

First take a deep breath....You need to either carry this baby and give it up for adoption or have the baby because it is Gods will to do this. The first thing you do need to do after this baby my dear is get yourself on birth control and just try hard not to get yourself in this situation again. Double protection if you have too. I have raised three beautiful children because I wasn't able to get pregnant and you really would make someone life so full if you would give the baby up.

Answer 7

Real difficult situation. I would say that if you do not believe in abortions, then you really have only 2 choices: either keep the second baby, or give it up for adoption.

There is a place called Planned Parenthood, you might want to give them a try. If nothing else, they can refer you, give you your options and choices, and yes, for the future they can help you to be more aware of how to prevent a pregnancy.

Answer 8

Although i do not believe in abortion myself....i have to say this is a tough one if you think you will not be able to provide for your child then maybe you should reconsider that or abortion there are many couples that want to adopt babyes before they are born...on the other having 2 kids is wonderful i have a brother and i con not immagine my life without him. It is really an answer you need to give yourself.....someone else suggested you talk to someone about this i think that's a wise answer.

Answer 9

Pray...even if you've never done it, or don't believe in it...i'm telling you God IS there to help, and will.... believe me sweety...i was in the same situation and now have a one and a two year old and am happily married to the most wonderful man... who by the way is not my children's maternal father, but their daddy all the same. And God was there to help me, when i needed it, and he'll be there for you too :)

Answer 10

If you're pregnant and don't believe in abortion then the answer is obvious. Unless you would accept using the abortion pill.