my friends and i r in a fight
2006-06-06 13:24:34 · 33 answers · asked by makenna45 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
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CHATEAU POOR ME CIRCA 2006
2006-06-16 16:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by athorgarak 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fighting is a proper way of resolving negative feelings among friends. remember when two people have conversation and they both agreed concurrently on the same point without an argument or a fight, one of them must be stupid. In real life we agree to disagree, vice-versa is the case. You and your friend are still angry with each other that is why you continued bottling your feelings. you are only cheating yourself of the room for happiness. Your need to call you friend up, and talk some sense to each other. If you refuse to do this, depression and high blood pressure are in your immediate future. It will on the overall affect your productivity in your walk of life.
2006-06-19 22:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by olu A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes the problem worse to keep it all inside. I know you said you and your friends are in a fight but, I am sure you have other friends you can talk to,if not where is your mom? Moms are good at helping with these kinds of situations. Go to her and tell her what is going on. When you are through discussing the situation you will feel some relief immediately and that will help you get through this. I don't know why you are fighting with your friends but, if they are truly your friends they will get over the ordeal, too... Good Luck!!!
2006-06-20 09:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by C Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One can not successfully bottle up their feelings. You are important and thus you must express your innermost feelings. No one can totally agree with others or that person would be a robot. Sometimes you are right, but sometimes, the other person may be right. This is just the way things occur. Whatever you do, be sure and express your point of view. You will feel better about any situation if you will act in this way. Remember this, "If God be for us, who can be against us?" - Romans 8:31. Peace and God Bless.
2006-06-19 11:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you bottle up your feelings it is only making the situation worse for you! Instead of arguing and being angry you should sit down with your friend, and explain what the problem is, and see if the two of you can work this or these problems out together! Bottling it all up will just keep you down in the dumps and also destroy the friendship that the two of you have!
Good Luck!!!
2006-06-17 04:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, when I bottled up my feelings, my mind began to think bad things about another person that were not true. This was because instead of talking about what bothered me, I hid it and made the problem worse. Communication is the key to clear up any misunderstandings, or hurt feelings. But it must be done respectfully and with a lot of listening and not jumping to conclusions.
Proverbs 15:1 "An answer, when mild, turns away rage, but a word causing pain makes anger to come up."
Proverbs 15:18 "An enraged man stirs up contention, but one that is slow to anger quiets down quarreling."
2006-06-19 08:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by racy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok your in a fight....let things go a while until you dissolve some of the hostility then you need to probably sit down and talk. To do it right away usually escalates to pointless name calling and back biting.
Put yourself in how they feel and try to evaluate and get some books on fighting fair. I took college classes on this stuff but most people do not fight fair. Trying seeing the other persons point of view and be a person that solves the problem instead of adding to it.
2006-06-16 15:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point in time you will lose your temper and hurt someone that might be a Innocent person. You don't want to do that believe me I know what I'm talking about. Find a way to get rid of bottled up feelings. But don't hurt some.
2006-06-06 13:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You suffer mentally and physically. There is always a way to let it out without hurting anyone. You can slam a door, go jogging, treat yourself to chocolate for being a better person than the ones who hurt you, or get another person to sit down with you and your friends to talk it out without a shouting match. The possibilities are endless and as long as you don't hurt anyone including yourself, they all feel better than bottling it up.
2006-06-19 03:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to bottle up my feelings but then they all just came out all at once so I would have to say that it is not good to bottle them up. Deal with them now, tell people how you feel and don't worry about making other people mad you can't help how you feel but you can let others know.
2006-06-13 18:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by cboyce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
repressed feelings have shown health issues such as high blood pressure, increase stress, and many other mental and physically draining stuff. best bet is to ask a friend if you can vent and just let it all out, scream, yell, b**** and just in the end talk to your friend when all that repressed anger is out of the way. you don't want the headache, trust me. work it out...you'll feel so much better later on, and you can laugh about it with your friends after =)
2006-06-06 13:30:43 · answer #11 · answered by Ms. Smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋