I mean they get with you they want you to change and you think they are right and when you change and do all they ask they leave you with a broken heart and nothing to hold on to but false promises and fake dreams! Why is that? Are there any good women left that want a real man to love them and to share thier life with? Is there true love anymore?
2006-06-06 13:17:18 · 9 answers · asked by Love_is_there 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes, of course there are good women left who arent looking for guys to change who they really are. and of course true love is around! you just have to wait. i understand its a hard thing to wait for, but when you finally experience it... you'll definatly know it was worth the wait.
and another tip... dont change yourself for some chick. be yourself. if the girl doesnt like you for that.. then she isnt worth you.
2006-06-06 13:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The wrong thing to do is to actually give all of your love. You can't just come up to someone you're attracted to and hand your heart over especially when you don't even know if that person is willing to exercise true love togther with you. Love is dialog, a connection, two-sided, it's shared most of all. Each and every human being has been given an ample supply of love for each of us to share with each other. So for any of us to just give away our love is one of many foolish things we can do in our lives. Love is very precious and valuable. Some people mock love when they intigrate it with sex, money, and whatever selfish item you can think of. When love is mixed in with greed and selfishness, it spoils or goes bad. That's why; like you said, in broken relationships, people are being kicked when they're down only because of that mixture. In the process of spoiled love the person's heart which contains good promises and dreams are shattered because when you've totally given someone your heart, you're taking a huge risk in turning your hopes and dreams into your partner's responsibility. All these things happen for uncountable reasons. In my opinion there's more excuses than reasons. I will say this though, be a lot more careful to whom you "share" your heart with. Don't ever give your whole heart to anyone, because you're gonna have a hard time recovering from heartbreak. Besides, your whole heart doesn't belong to anyone on earth anyways. Like I've said, your heart contains your wishes, dreams and promises. Those are yours to keep. No one has any business taking that from you. Now, somone may "share" a big portion of your heart but nobody on earth should ever take your whole heart. No amount of earthly love is worthy of that.
2006-06-06 23:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by musician2004@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say that it is some true love or lover out there.Because once a man think they have you they seem to change and the ones that change they that should just do the same thing on and on.
2006-06-06 20:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is out there, I promise. When you love someone with all your heart, you have to make sure you are doing it honestly. Are you loving them because you really love them, or are you trying to love them with the intensity that you wish to receive?
2006-06-06 20:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Brackalicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know. i'm goin through the same thing. they're there, but when you need them most, they dissapear. i don't know what it is that makes them do that. yeah it hurts, but at the same time, i've learned a good lesson. i've learned that i never want to be that person. i never want to be the person that goes around breaking everyone's heart. i hope you feel better. have a nice day.
2006-06-06 20:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by lil_bit_a_evrythang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are good women out there still...just like there are great guys.
Chin up life will bring whoever she is your way.
Good Luck :)
2006-06-07 22:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you have to be patient with it though...you're going to have ur heart broken plenty of times, but sooner or later there will be that one that will make it all better ....you have to date those who break your heart that way the right one can put it all together and make it whole...but it takes time and patience
2006-06-06 20:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by melissa D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you let her down when she really needed you. Or maybe you let her down time and time again. Maybe a combination of the two.
2006-06-06 20:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you marry, me I've been searching for you all my life make me your wife, hey that rhyme
2006-06-06 20:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋