how do i get the men in my house to clean?!?!?

Question

i feel like im being druggen down bye the mess my house is usualy in i try to keep up but i live with three men..ALL over the age of 20... my brother, my dad and my boyfriend...my brother destroys all that is in sight..leaveing dirty dishes clothes to mold and fement on the floor...my boyfriend has a hard time DOING anything (including makeing our bed, changeing the cats litter but does bring his dish's up) and my dad.. well hes 55 works nights and honestly i think hes just to tired to care..lol so my question is.. how do i make these men help..OR whats the price of a ticket from n.s to the bahamas..lol HELP

Answer 1

Girl, I do feel for you! Being a guy, I must say, we can be a little lazy. Work, Stress etc, us Guys have it hard. ;-p
I got into the Habit of picking up things when I went in the general direction of where it should go. Example; Newspaper, I walking to where the Trash is, so, pick it up and throw it away. Not like I made a special trip. Socks, I go to the Bathroom beside my Bedroom, just take them along and throw in the door into my Laundry Basket. Again, no special trip. NOW! Dishes, I fixed a spray bottle with Dish soap, so, I just Spray my Plate, Fork etc. Rinse and it washed, if, you understand. This all I can say. IF, you can maybe remind them when they walk in a certain direction, "Hey, take the Newspaper with you since you going that way"! Maybe they might get into a habit of thinking before they start walking and make a wasted trip. Good Luck!

Answer 2

Well you need to talk to your Boyfriend he needs to help out around the house to and your brother well if you have to stick your boyfriend on him to clean up or your dad or maybe you get on him about stuff and he'll get tired of hearing you to tell him to this or that and he will do it on his own and as for your dad it's ok that he is kinda messy he works night and he is 55 but he should still help around the daytime!!

Answer 3

STO[P CLEANING for about a week step over trash and dirty laundry and leave the house without a care in the world. They'll probably ask stupidly.why don't you keep the house clean? and just tell them for what you pigs 'll just trash the place again. tell them don't you miss haveing your fresh clean cloths and clean floors.

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Answer 4

My companion probable does 60% of the cleansing. He does extra of the each and daily maintenance stuff (dishes, folding, sweeping/vacuuming), while I do the thorough cleansing (washing flooring, changing sheets, cleansing loos and tub tubs) approximately as quickly as a week. We prepare dinner mutually, yet he chefs breakfast and lunch extra frequently than me.

Answer 5

If you're seriously into it, marry someone who loves... and never whom you love. The first type might turn out to be a perfect 'helper' (if not exactly a servant), while the latter would perhaps have the impulse to rule.

Answer 6

dont clean! invite his friends over and then go to grocery! he'll definitely clean b4 friends come over.

Answer 7

take the T.V. away from them

Answer 8

bribe them