2006-06-06 13:11:14 · 10 answers · asked by her_site 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to pick one, and head straight for couples counseling with that one if you want to preserve the relationship.
Set up an appointment, sit down with the one you want to keep, explain you want to be with him, that you have a couples appt. ready to go the next day (or the day after) then fess up.
Be ready to spend a day or two alone and then hope your chosen partner will see you again after he has had time to think things over, preferably in front of the counseler together at some point.
Once that storm settles a bit, then tell the one you are dumping. This order may sound unfair to the dumpee, however you don't want to be dealing with the stress of the certain breakup while trying to work confession and resolution with the other. What is another couple of weeks of deception?
You might lose it all or you might end up stress free (you can count on some rocky weeks or months) but that will beat the uncertainty. A fine mess you have put yourself in. . . .
2006-06-06 13:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Quark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How sad for you, unless of course you like drama and then, how great for you. Now about the guys, sounds like they probably deserve better than you. You should try some professional help. Doesn't sound like you have much self esteem. I hope you resolve this soon. Take care.
2006-06-06 13:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! U should be true to your husband because u made that commitment. If you love the boyfriend then u should be with him. U have to choose because that is unfair to both of them.
2006-06-06 13:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by RadeDude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha well you better do something. You are going to get caught and end up alone! I hate cheaters!! What a coward you are. Get a divorce. And how does this boyfriend of yours not know you are married? Do yourself a favor and be honest.
2006-06-06 13:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by somechick25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it with the boyfriend....some things are better left unsaid but definitely get an STD check before you bring anything to your hubby.
2006-06-06 13:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only asking because you are ashamed of yourself. You need to end it with the boyfriend at least. You already know what you need to do in your heart.
2006-06-06 13:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by SexySororityGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, not cool at all, hon. you better confess now before it gets too bad. dont count on seeing either of them much longer
2006-06-06 13:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you want to get your *** kicked go right ahead and tell your husband!!!!!!!!!! you need to figure out who you want to be with and stop fooling around
2006-06-06 13:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by lovely j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gRL have u been cheating on both em!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! o0o0o0o0o0 crap u on some deep sh!t . u no bein true to both of em.
2006-06-06 13:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Team Jacob :) ||kiki♥|| 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is not broke. Do not fix it!!
2006-06-06 13:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by Cardell C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋