i wonder do guys still care if you are a virgen of not?

Question

it set really important for guys if a girl is virgen or not. will guys still marry a girl thats is not a virgen.

Answer 1

YES we do!

Virgins don't have STD's or high expections ;-)

Answer 2

Most guys do care. They like to feel like they have been the first, the conqueror. Personally I think it is more of an ego boost for the simple minded. The problem is that with that experience being lacked a young woman will eventually start to wonder about what other men would be like. Today women are open about their sexuality and so she will hear about the wonderful and terrible experiences that others have had. I think that in years gone by when sex was a taboo and not to be discussed that virginity was a good thing in a relationship but despite the moral complications I don't really think it is conducive to a solid relationship in today's world

Answer 3

hey im a girl so i dont know if they care or not but it depends on ur beliefs no guy can ever tell u what 2 do or control ur person it is ur choice if a guy doesn't like you because ur a virgin he has bad character because it shouldn't matter u cant ever get it back once it is gone so make sure the first time is the right time u have the strength 2 choose

Answer 4

Look at it this way, do you want to marry a man who has slept with 12 women and you have never been with a man or maybe 2 or 3. Be realistic, what bothers you bothers us. No one wants some one who has slept around more than they have.

Answer 5

As long as the guy loves you, then yes he would marry you if your are not a virgin. But it is only important to a guy when a girl is a virgin is because they will be the first to hit it.

Answer 6

I wouldn't want to sleep with somebody who I know has slept with like 5 or so guys. That would just gross me out!

Answer 7

Ladies who are still a virgin outa be put in a place of honor and treated accordingly

Answer 8

I don't see why it would matter, but think about it this way: if a guy judges you based on your sexual past (or lack thereof), does he really deserve to be in your pants anyways?

Answer 9

if he really loves you he would still marry you most of them that want virgins want tobe the first cuz its tighter but that dosnt work for marriage so he'll marry u if he cares

Answer 10

They should care. And not just cause of the high expectations or lack of STD's...for moral reasons too.

Answer 11

in the word that we leave in. do you really think that is a something that men look for. they are more looking for the right one that they can smile and spend time w/ if she happens to be she is going to be look at as diamond found in sand.