touch me in any sexual way an so I agreed under those terms. he persuaded me to sleep over he said because he missed me loves me. When it was time to go to sleep he locked the door which he never does9 he put the chain on the door) and then 2 minutes later he got on top of me and took my panties off and started rubbing me with his trying to have sex with me (i am a virgin). He took my wrists and pinned me down with mild force. he then asked me did I want him to stop 4 times and each times I said, yes I want you to stop but he didn't. He didn't go inside of me because im a virgin and I cloed my legs on him and after 5 minutes of trying he said again do you want me to stop and I said yes and thats when he got off of me and went to sleep, and I got up and left. I am confused because he put the chain on the door, which he never did. lied to me about just spending time without doing anything like that,and then pinned my wrists.I know he diodn't rape me but he broke up with me the next day?
2006-06-06 12:54:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what were his intentions that night? why did he dump me the very next day? did he assualt me ot think of doing that?
2006-06-06 12:57:17 · update #1
do you think he would still have still dumped me if I had sex with him?
2006-06-06 13:00:49 · update #2
This is a very scary man and you should RUN away from him. Be thankful he "dumped" you. Now you should call the police and report the rapist for who he is. Think about it,he invited you over for a sleepover knowing you are a virgin and not interested in physical intimacy, he locked the door, chained the door, he intentionally lied to you.....he thought about this, planned it out and attempted to carry it out. I am so happy that you are OK but so sorry that this man you thought was your boyfriend, someone that loved you hurt you so badly.
And please, what happened that night was not your fault. Being a virgin is absolutely no excuse for a man to force himself on you and for him to dump you because you aren't ready...well than he isn't a man at all, that makes him a CREEP! And do you really want your first time to be with a creep? Or a real man? A man who is willing to wait forever, that thinks being a virgin is sexy, that respects you, your body and your mind? They are out there and they are the ones worthy of such a special gift. And if you are waiting until marriage of your own free choice, than good for you! Hang in there girl!
2006-06-06 13:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by MaHaa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky he stopped when he did and that he broke up with you. It sounds like he had other things in mind and decided against them at the last minute. Move on and don't look back.
2006-06-06 13:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by patticakes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just wanted your virginity stay away from him. We lie alot about our intentions
2006-06-06 13:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by texman03 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i think he wouldve broke up with you either way maybe you should report him but be careful whatever you do it could get worse for you.
2006-06-06 13:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by shopgirl27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋