We've been together for three years. My two children and I moved to Arizona a year ago. He lives on the East Coast. He came to visit once. He was planning to come and visit last month but so far hasn't made it. I even told my friends he was coming. I feel very disappointed and I feel like a fool!!!
2006-06-06 12:48:57 · 17 answers · asked by Bx4Ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you've been apart for one year and he has only visited once? seems to me that he is not interested in you anymore. how can it take you so long to realize this? anyone who loves someone makes efforts, moves oceans and mountains. for your sake, and the sake of your children, dump him. concentrate on making a good life for you and your kids, i'm sure that along the way, the perfect man will come...in arizona. good luck.
2006-06-06 12:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by sungirlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a toughie. but trust me talking helps alot, talk to him and tell him what you feel or you better dump his sorry *** before you get hurt. Are you seriously saying that ever since you moved to Arizona, he came to visit just once. what about Christmas, what about thanksgiving, birthday parties. talk to him and if he is feeling pressured, you tell him you can't be with him any more, you want more and obviously he isn't giving you what you want. take a trip to splits ville, before a month you'll be glad you made the decision
2006-06-06 12:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by jamie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him in the nicest possible way that you think that you have reached a point that you feel that one of 2 things is going to have to happen, in order for you to be ok. 1- He needs to be more dedicated to you, & try harder to come & see you, or 2- you think that you have reached that point in your relationship that you think that it has gone as far as it can, & you think that it is time to start seeing other people on a trial basis. I hope that you are able to work through this, & have a happy out come. GOOD LUCK TO YOU.......
2006-06-06 12:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hosed.
You're just a woman he gets to when he wants. If you moved away from him, to get a better home in AZ, I'd say that was your fault. Now he has all the girls back east to play with.
2006-06-06 12:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by Bigfoot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck....Men are always lookn for the easy way out...only a Real Man could be approached with this question...but if you have to come here and ask for help...you got urself a "little boy"
2006-06-06 12:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it, you do not have a boy friend. Haven't you heard the song, "There is no Arizona" ... it was written about you. Time to move on.
2006-06-06 12:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it, honey........he has lost interest! Long distance does not work. Forget him and get familar with your new home, invest time in your kids. I am sure that he has moved on......you just don't know! Stop wasting your life over some guy you never see.
2006-06-06 12:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information.. Why is he there and not with you? Like I said not en ought info
Hey remember love is 4 lettered word so is hate,cash.hurt...ect
2006-06-06 12:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by ngmfb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not that into you. Move on and change your phone number. Your kids deserve better. A real man is out there.
2006-06-06 12:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by DELETED ACCOUNT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u arent feeling good n tha inside because those are ur emotions and that sucks when they are hurt and plus gurlfriend u got yo babys to look afta find another guy and i kno that it is hard to let go but i think that u gotta do wat u gotta do
2006-06-06 12:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by quawbossy_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋