I recently found out that my friend drinks at famiy parties (we are only 13) and she plans on having a child in high school. My other friend, who is a guy, also plans on having a child in high school because his whole family had kids as teens. He is also not a virgin. That sickens me. HELP!
2006-06-06 12:40:58 · 19 answers · asked by 12345pony 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
p.s. I know I would tell someone to just not have that friend anymore, but I really care about them, so that is not an option...think about how hard it would be to drop your BFF's
2006-06-06 12:45:46 · update #1
I think you need to talk to your parents about your friend. This problem is too big for you to handle alone. I want you to remember that a friendship is supposed to be something that you enjoy. In life you will learn that there are just some people who always bring you down with their own problems or issues. You have to be "toxic" free in order to enjoy your own life. You should only have to worry about you and not other people.
2006-06-06 12:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your family about it, and there is really nothing u can do about it, if i were you i would find new friends. let them make mistake, just tell them this " i'm tell you, that u won't be happy with yourself, if u are going to have a baby, then don't come back to me and asking for help, you listen to me now or never then u can get help from me" tell your friend that, because having a baby is a really PISSSS ME OFFFFFFF WHEN SHE OR HE CAN"T EVEN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELF and they planning to abuse the child as well, what type of people are they. bring a person to hill?
2006-06-06 19:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm by the sound of that maybe both your friends should hook up! Haha...just chill and don't hang around them anymore, you can't change people so what you see is what you get. Lol that was funny "she's thirteen and drinks at family parties"- classic.
2006-06-06 19:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by hollisterdudee91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW
they shoudl talk with a sexual terapist!!!
I dont think is a good idea to have child while teen!!!
I dont think there is much you can do... jsut talk to them and tell them is wrong... you are teens and its a very hard time... nobody listens and think you are correct in everything...
so the best is to talk to a professional!!!
2006-06-06 19:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by jorge_wilk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it the Maury way...find someone who has a child as a teenager and have them talk about the difficulties it presents.
2006-06-06 19:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by pattyhillmck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it is truly none of ur business....You cannot control your friends or anyone for that matter...People choose their lives "path roads" with or without ur permission...Youre better off leaving ur friends to make their own decisions....because it doesnt fit your lifestyle doesnt mean you cant continue to be their friend...and not be a JUDGEMENTAL one at that
2006-06-06 19:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life in a righteous way.. You do NOT have to be swayed by morons such as your uneducated friends. Let them live their life as they want.. Obviously, they are beyond help.
2006-06-06 19:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just focus on yourself and doing the best you can with your life. There is nothing you can do about your friends and what they want to do with their lives.
2006-06-06 19:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by themisslita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends --who have class,and who wait till at least 21 to be parents!!
2006-06-06 19:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its her decision. so she can do anything she wants. if her parents don't stop her , what makes u think u can.
i think its awful that you be sicken because people choose to live their life differently then what u want them too.
2006-06-06 19:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by demi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋