whey is it so hard to find ur soul mate?

Answer 1

It is Hard to find a Soul mate?? I never knew that, anyways..
I think thats because we expect a lot from other people, more so from our future.
We feel that we need to have some one else complete ourselves.
We need that someone else to be that perfect nose or the perfect A student that we were not.
It is because we as children have been brought up to think and expect nothing but the best.
And it is more so in Western countries than in the East. Why??
Well, I am glad you asked!!
In the West, there is SO much emphasis on materialistic perfection. We just need to hve the perfect face with no zits or scars, but in the East, they are just as happy if you have a happy face that has lots of innate peace.
We just need to have that tux or that expensive piece of jewelry or dress. But not so in countries like India, I know loads of people who have not been to a mall in their lifes, never had a designer anything in their lifes, but they are all very happy.
In the West, we cannot tolerate a day without public display of wealth and affection. People in the east are more discreet.
Long story short, I think if we were to just love the person that loves us, and not for what he is worth, then finding a Soul mate is not too difficult.
'A sucessful relationship is where one of the person has the ability to forget'
Finding your Soul Mate would only need that you step out of the spotlight that is 'Society' and look into your heart, searching for what you really need to be able to live happily ever after.
All the best!!

Answer 2

If it were easy, you would learn nothing about life, love or yourself.

I personally don't believe that a soul mate is someone you were "destined" to be with, by some cosmic chance at the right place at the right time you'll happen to meet. There are simply WAY too many variables for this to be logical. I do, however believe that a soul mate is someone you are unequivically compatible with, who you can trust, depend upon and love unconditionally. Someone you would never want to be without.

My past experiences and relationships taught me about myself, dictated what I am looking for, and allowed me to discover what I will and will not tolerate. Each step on the journey led me to the man I'm with now, which I have no doubt is my soul mate.

Answer 3

It usually happens when you're not expecting it to happen, or in a place you're not expecting it to happen. Some people don't find it because they are trying too hard or they are trying to get together with the WRONG people at the WRONG places. Thing is - you don't KNOW it's wrong right off the bat. Some peole try getting together with someone who isn't even single. BAD MOVE! Just be more outgoing. Go where the people are at events you enjoy.

Answer 4

Maybe you don't just have one soul mate. Maybe there is someone for you at different stagees in your life. I mean, you change with life experiences and age. How can we expect the same person to continue to be your "soul mate" when they are going to change too?

Answer 5

Well, you got to have SOME adventure in your life. If finding your soul mate was easy, then what will make life more interesting and exciting?

Answer 6

because your soulmate is just like you and wondering the same thing, but never know where to go and find you, so they sit at home and write questions like the one you wrote instead of going out and meeting people.

Answer 7

good answer.......I agree.... if we are looking for our soul mate, we'll miss it. A soul mate will just appear.

Answer 8

some people just take their time to pick the right one. they might be picky and think just because maybe he/she doesn't play a sport, that he/she isn't the one. that's just how life is

Answer 9

Trust takes time,
Respect takes a little longer!!!

Answer 10

STOP LOOKING! they will come at time in your life when your ready YOU CANT FIND THEM THEY JUST FIND YOU