we been to geither for 2 yrs but i love him so much i hope he would never cheat
2006-06-06 11:44:09 · 27 answers · asked by christy_carter05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I think that if he has one little slip, and really apologizes for it, and you 100% trust him to follow his word, then ya I think he loves you
2006-06-06 11:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Don't allow yourself to go to the "what if" world. You are worrying about something that may never happen. How you feel today, if you found out he was cheating, is not necessarily how you might feel tomorrow. As each day goes by in a relationship, more bricks are laid, the stronger the union becomes, and every day you are 24 hours more invested than you were yesterday. These are all reasons, to either forgive or end a relationship. As long as it stays healthy, don't put yourself threw any added burden. To make a relationship last forever, needs all your energy. You don't have any to waste on things that haven't gone wrong at this time. Concentrate on the fact that you love him so much, that you will make sure he want ever feel the need to cheat.
2006-06-06 21:28:51 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men by nature are polygamous so they say. And this is something that I think is true. I've known so many men who really love their wives but still cheat on them. If your man loves you very much, though it is not a guarantee that he will be ever faithful to you, it is a great factor for him to avoid being infidel because of fear that to be so will hurt you a lot. What you can do is show him that you really love him and that might hold him back from cheating on you. You know, lots of men are soft-hearted when it comes to receiving affection and caring from women. Just be very loving, thoughtful and understanding as much as possible at all times. That will give you mile-long edge over other women. And when the time comes that he will be confronted with temptations, rest assured that your kindness and love will be his shields against giving in. Give your best shots about loving and the best love you can ever think of will come back to you. Smile. To love is wonderful!
2006-06-06 18:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say "men will cheat no matter what - its their nature to do so" - let me ask you this - who says that? I bet its mostly women that have had a man cheat on them. I fell in love with my wife 20 years ago and married her. I have not strayed a bit in those years. Do I look? - Hell yeah - God made women attractive to men so naturally I have a tendency to look and my wife is good with it. She says if I stop looking she will be worried about me. So I guess my answer is this - if your man truely loves you - he will not cheat. I have had many opportunities over the years but out of love and respct for my wife I have not. There has been times when we were fussin or not geting along the best but still I stayed the coarse and intend to continue doing so.
2006-06-06 18:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by trickster_travels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the same way you could cheat on him. Is he being really insecure and on here asking questions to strangers about his love life? Probably not.
Deal with your insecurities or else you might lose a good guy.
2006-06-06 18:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by prittytempting 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m a girl in a 3 year relationship. I really really really love my boyfriend. However i have cheated on him more than once. You never now....
2006-06-06 19:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are natural cheats. It is genetic and primordial. Not saying all men cheat, but it is too common to think he won't.
Expect him to cheat if you stop loving him in healthy ways like being jealous, controlling, expectant, nagging or stop taking care of yourself so you become ugly outside too.
2006-06-06 18:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by mrscmmckim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 times out of 10: Once a cheater always a cheater! He may not but it's always about 1) your trust in him, 2) your confidence in the relationship and 3) your own self-esteem. This man could be smiling pretty in your face and doing you dirty behind your back like he once did but I don't know your man but if he were my man I would dump him because it hurts less for a guy to break up with me and go do him and come back to me than it would for him to smile in my face and lying next to me one night and her the next, but that's me. Hope this helps!
2006-06-06 18:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by elr212006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could cheat but than that's not really love cause you don't want to hurt the person your with on the other thing try not to be so not trusting, with out trust with out communication with out romance you will never get it right these are the 3 keys to any relationship try it good luck
2006-06-06 18:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could he still cheat if he really loves me? well you wrote could he still cheat. Did he cheat on you before? Does he have a history of cheating? I really think that when a man has allready cheated he may still cheat. Please dont trust anyone who has cheated on someone before. I think once a cheat always a cheat. But if you trust him and he hasnt given you any reason to doubt him then show him you trust him but please be on guard.
2006-06-06 18:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by Ann A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating usually has nothing to do with love. in my case it has nothing to do with it. it has to do with a lack of sex from my partner.
when she tells me that she is tired for so many days in a row it's like hell. I didn't get married to have the sex machine go to the off position. it was great before but now it's not. therefore if a girl starts flirting and she seems interested i'm off to the races.
want to keep him home? keep you legs spread and your mouth open (but not talking).
want to see me run faster??? accuse me of cheating. hell, if I'm guilty I might as well go find something to be guilty about if I wasn't already.
2006-06-08 13:23:47 · answer #11 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋