im sexually active is that bad and im only 13?

Answer 1

I'm going to have to go with yes.

Answer 2

Not being able to handle the emotions surrounding sex sounds like the weakest evidence you would want to consider of all the possible issues. If you feel all torn up inside about it, then you can see a counselor and work out your problems.

The following issues, however, may be difficult to impossible to resolve:

The probability of contracting an STD (HIV, Chlamydia, Herpes simplex 1, etc) is substantially higher for people that start being sexually active - including fellatio - under the age of 17. Your age group - under 15 - has even a greater rate than that.

Additionally, there may be a risk of pregnancy at an age where most people are unprepared for adult life (let alone even want to be catapulted into it). Generally, teenage parenthood is not easy beyond the act of procreation. Church communities will look down on and possibly condemn - even excommunicate - the couple. Parents are usually not impressed. In school, teenage parents are often shunned, humiliated, or - at the very least - not accommodated to the point of discomfort.

At 13, you're generally not terribly well-informed about sex and its natural consequences. Worse yet, people tend to be avoidant of the topic and if your activity becomes public, you might be part of what people avoid. Your activities might be used as a means of blackmailing you...

Anyhow, "BAD" is such a subjective and pejorative term! I will leave it up to you to decide if the health and social risks are "bad."

The driving a car analogy is interesting though... How the heck would they test someone to find out if they were responsible enough for sex and possibly creating a baby? How would you restrict that behavior? You wouldn't get arrested or stopped by the police, would you? Still, like I said, it does also have the potential to kill you or at least ruin your life. You might want to already get yourself tested for HIV. Ah, yes, the joys of sex... Remember to always think with the head attached to your shoulders first. Good luck, kid!

Answer 3

Age 13 is a bit too young to be sexually active. If your parents are aware that you are sexually active and you are protecting yourself and your partner by employing safer sex - that is fine - but you should really wait a few years until you are older.
Even if you use a condom, there is always the chance that someone can get pregnant, no matter how many precautions are made, so if you are not yet ready to become a parent, I urge you to cool down for a few years until you are older.

Answer 4

I don't want to judge you but being sexually active at 13 is not a good thing. You are opening up doors to things that you don't need at that age. You are risking becoming infected with a sexually transmitted disease and you are risking a pregnancy. In my opinion, people should not have sex unless they are ready for the possible outcomes, like a baby. Would you really be ready to care for a baby right now if you became pregnant? Are you really ready to go get a yearly Gynocological exam and pap smear at 13? Are you ready to get tested for some really scary STD's that aren't curable? Use your head and stop having sex until you are mature enough to deal with the consequences.

Answer 5

Yes and there is a good chance you will regret it later. Try to figure out why you feel the need to be sexually active at such a young age. Do you like the attention from guys? Do you think it will make guys like you more? There is no good reason for a 13 year old to have sex.

Answer 6

I think the rise of ur hormones are too high. Lots of men who re not sexually active, go to the hospital to boost their homones. I think its wise if u do the opposite. Go to the hospital so this can be reduced. Before ure tempted to do the undoables.Didnt you see or heard of how a 12 yr old boy raped his twin sis in Oprah?Imagine urself being caught during masturbation U feel like entering the ground. The ealier u go to the hospital the better so that things dont get out of hand. Also,reduce ur intake of Garlic, onion and milk cos they help to boost sex drive. Good Luck!!

Answer 7

you just asked in another question if sex hurts, but now you are sexually active. You also said you were raped by your boyfriend in another question a few days ago. Which is the truth. Sounds like you got to much time on your hands.

Answer 8

This probably isn't a good sign. At thirteen (or eighteen), you're not ready for the relationship sexual activity implies. I hope you get help from... someone you trust.

Answer 9

heck yeah that bad, you are a nasty little girl. You better tell your mommy. The question is why? why do you do it? Have you ever heard of AIDS and HIV? If not research it. You should not be treating you body as a public trash can. Get some help.

Answer 10

Virgen Alert! You are a little kid going through that sad stage where you're curious about sex and ashamed of your lack of personal knowledge. Go play with yourself like all the other kids your age and just be satisfied with that.

Answer 11

You shouldn't be @ THAT age. You are much too young. You should be playing w/ your friends. You're risking the chance of getting PREGNANT !!! Once you're prego, there's no turning back... What would you do if you found out you were prego ??? Seriously.