I want to make love to my wife and to another woman at the same session. my wife is scared is this normal?

Answer 1

What you want to do violates the marriage vows you took with your wife. Your wife has every right to be scared, upset, angry, etc. You should really think about what you are doing - this could ruin your marriage.

Answer 2

Yes, it is normal for her to be scared. My GF and I are in an "open relationship" (and for you nay sayers, we've been together for over 8 years...no probs.) and it took a while for us to get to the point that we could admit to eachother that we loved eachother madly, loved the sex life we had together...we just wanted to spice it up even more! We were both apprehensive. Were we strong enough in our relationship? What if she ended up liking/loving the other person more than me?Jealousy? Give your wife a break. It's awesome that she's even considering it. Don't push her. She just doesn't want to loose you in any way shape or form. Let her mull the idea over in her head. If you do decide to enter this new change in your lives together, then take it slow and introduce it little by little. But always reassure her that she is the love of your life. She knows it deep down, she just needs to be reminded. If she decides that this is not for her, then let it go! If you insist upon it, you will evenutally loose her.

Good luck.

Answer 3

yes. she may not be comfortable with the fact that you want to do this. some women believe it or not like monogomous relationships and feel insecure or rather uncomfortable with the thought of having another partner for sex, if she isnt bisexual and doesnt feel comfortable with it you shouldnt pressure her into it. the only thing you can do is ask, and if she doesnt feel comfortable with it you should discuss the reasons why, maybe shes not confident enough in your relationship to go through with this not to mention that sometimes it can cause some major relationship issues. I went through this a couple of years ago with my husband and pressuring her to do something shes uncomfortable with will only cause her to resent you for it... If she wants to do this but is uncomfortable with it you need to be reassuring and make her as comfortable as possible. Anyway threesomes are over-rated most likely one partner is left out or feels left out most of the time... and yes I have had a threesome before despite feeling uncomfortable with it I did it to please my husband and it caused us a lot of problems... if your partner isnt comfortable with it then dont pressure her with it... respect her wishes and leave it for fantasy... maybe one day she will be comfortable enough in your relationship to experiment with it if not then leave things alone... everyone is different. and if you try to push her into something your relationship may not survive this... listen to me ive been there and I know what she is feeling.

Answer 4

yep, it's normal.

Answer 5

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