What do you all think about it.
Me and my bf broke up 3 weeks ago, but we're continuing sex, we both have agreed that if it becomes too personal and we're feeling something for each other we'll stop.
2006-06-06 11:11:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Actually we are very much in love, but we're not using it for sex.
And I wasnt asking for a lecture, just thoughts, possibly advice without imposing your beliefs, hes the only man I've ever slept with, so dont think anything horrible...well TOO horrible lol
2006-06-06 11:16:10 · update #1
I think that most sexually active couples go through this stage after they break up, esp if they have not started dating anyone else yet...usually you just end up getting confused as to why you broke up...get back together...break up again...it's not the best cycle to get stuck on, but people need to make mistakes in order to learn from them...
2006-06-06 11:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a bad idea. There's a reason sex is ideally supposed to be for marriage. It is a physical expression of love, and even if it doesn't start out that way, it almot always ends badly. When it gets personal, it's too late, then someone's heart is already broken. When y'all broke up, u ended the emotional part of the relationship, and sex is a part of that, don't hurt ur heart anymore...and if u guys have other partners, then disease could also be in the mix. END IT NOW! Is my advice to u.
2006-06-06 18:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK sex is an emotional bond weather you admit it or not.So either you have feelings or your just using each other 4 sex. THAT'S not a GOOD feeling 4 some one to use you+your emotions+your body. Just to kick you to the curb as soon as some one else comes along. TRUST ME ID FEEL USED. IF HE broke up with me he could just play with his self with out me there. id tell him hit the road Jack. And dont you come back no more.
2006-06-06 18:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut all ties and move on. You will never find someone else as long as you continue what you're doing. You can still be friendly, just not having sex with each other. If it's over, it's over! Move on!
2006-06-06 18:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think it is alright until both of you start seeing other people. If you have agreed that it is okay then it should be okay, but once you start seeing other people, it is important to keep a good relationship with your new partner so I don't think that it is a great idea once you have started seeing new people.
2006-06-06 18:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by ecko_baby25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds somewhat normal. Problem is when you start finding yourself interested in some one else, it starts to feel like you are breaking up all over again. This stinks more than the first time. I know I won't make that mistake again.
2006-06-06 18:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?!? Why would you do that? Sex before marriage is pointless to begin with, but sex when you're not even in love?!? Come on! Get a life and stop thinking about and having sex!
2006-06-06 18:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is a good idea to do a friends with benefits with anybody, especially your ex boyfriend. He may be using you. Besides sex before marriage is not such a good thing. I would stop. Wait. It's better that way, trust me.
2006-06-06 18:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both have to remain mature about it. If you can both keep it stristly sexual, then it is fine. Its a natural human urge anyways. However, not many people can have this type of relationship w/o one or the other falling back in love.
2006-06-06 18:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by pejhmonkalantar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you expect to meet mr right if your still screwing your ex leave him in the past because if you meet someone before he does and he still wants sex with you then what 2's company 3's a crowd
2006-06-06 18:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋