before we were married we were in love but now? not really
2006-06-06 10:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by alexandra.luba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1 week anaversary
2006-06-06 10:55:24 · update #1
How long ago did you guys get married?
Is it that all the romance feel like it's gone now?
Has he stop kissing all over you in public now, and everything feels like it's just going through the motions? Is that how you feel now-a-days? If so there is still some hope for you, what has happened is that you feel like now that you have gotten married there's no reason to look sexy for him no more, or he is walking around the house and not noticing how well you cooked diner last night, and has forgotten to tell you how lovely you look today.
You have to make time to continue to make time for each other, so what you are married now, that does not mean that you have to stop being loving towards each other.
Unless there is something else going on I think you should try to really do somethings together.
2006-06-06 10:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do agree that a little retreat away is good medicine for a relationship. Especially when I am feeling like we are in a rutt.
I just watched my mother go through 4 years with my dad having cancer. He died a year ago yesterday. She doesn't want to think about living without him. She took care of him, helped in doing things many others wouldn't and never thought one thing about it. That was her husband and in her mind, that was her job. She went to bat for him with doctors and nurses. She LOVED him. And he LOVED her. They were married 43 years because they wanted to be, not because they had to be.
I pray that if I am ever faced with that, I would be the same way. I love my husband that much.
To me, I do miss the hiding and sneaking of dating and making love all the time. I miss the nights of just talking to each other and telling each other how much we care. But kids, bills and life sometimes takes over. That's why the mini vacation is a great idea. Try it. Best to you!!
2006-06-06 18:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by I love the flipflops 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats life hun. once the falling in love the passion the rush the lust is gone you have to find away to still love and care for eachother. if not really then you might as well find another falling in love and try again. As a general rule of thumb the better the fall the worse the end result.
2006-06-06 17:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by A Friend of the Devil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the last comment.Marriage is work and compromise.Dont let the everyday regiment let you forget how you looked in each others eyes on your wedding day.Take some private time for each other and rikindle the romance in your lives.
2006-06-06 17:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by d.a.s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are, you just forgot about it. Get away with each other, ...a marriage takes a lot of work..neither of you have been working, that's for sure. Time to get off your butt and put some romance back into your lives. Good luck
2006-06-06 17:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you guys are married that doesnt mean that life stops there....give it a spice and do some outside activities, go clubbings with him like how u guys are before.
if u woke up in a middle of the night....give him a little treat ( u know what i mean))... he'll love that....lol
2006-06-06 18:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by shysheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't marry someone you can live with, you marry the person you cannot live without
True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about and few have seen.
2006-06-06 17:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by teetee's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww...is the honeymoon phase over? I am sure the love is there, you just have to remind eachother why you got married to begin with!
2006-06-06 17:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to get the romance back into the relationship have a romantic night together and be alone
2006-06-06 17:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋