this guy im dating is very posessive and when we're alone always tries to feel me up im kinda scared he even put his hand up my skirt in movie theater in front of friends
plz advise me
2006-06-06 10:45:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
you have got to stand up to him next time when he trys to feel you up just grab his hand , say im not ready, im not in the mood, im not comfortable with you gropin me anytime you feel like it!!!,, tell him he moves to fast!!!
2006-06-06 10:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by stepfunny 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope, that dont work out too well. Dump his @ss and find someone who will respect you better. YOU are NOT a piece of PROPERTY that he can feel up however he wants. Obiously youre not a s*l*u*t, so what is he trying to show his friends when he does this in front of them. DTMFA!!!!
Dump The Mother F*cker Already
Three important rules for breaking up
Don't put off breaking up when you know you want to
Prolonging the situation only makes it worse
Tell him honestly, simply, kindly, but firmly
Don't make a big production
Don't make up an elaborate story
This will help you avoid a big tear jerking scene
If you wanna date other people say so
Be prepared for the boy to feel hurt and rejected
Even if you've gone together for only a short time,
And haven't been too serious,
There's still a feeling of rejection
When someone says she prefers the company of others
To your exclusive company,
But if you're honest, and direct,
And avoid making a flowery emotional speech when you break the news,
The boy will respect you for your frankness,
And honestly he'll apeciate the kind of straight foward manner
In which you told him your decision
Unless he's a real jerk or a cry baby you will remain friends
2006-06-06 17:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by "EL SANCHO" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesnt have much respect for you as a person. I think he only think about what HE wants. Dump him. He will only end up hurting you. If he cared at all about you, then he would not try to feel you up.... especially in a public place. You deserve better than that.
2006-06-06 17:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Resasour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say u tell him u want to break up cuz he doesnt sound very nice and sinces hes like that u need get far away as possible cuz i know some one who has a possessive husband i mean she can not get away from him now and if u break up with him i advise u keep something u can hit him with u never know how hes gonna react?
2006-06-06 17:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by losangledguirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an abuser. Dump him, but tell your parents and your friends so they can help protect you in case he retaliates. The fact that you are scared says you know that this is what you have to do.
2006-06-06 17:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by just♪wondering 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you stop dating this guy, but you already know that because you are a smart girl and you know you don't want this kind of behavior from a guy you are dating. He's showing off in front of others at YOUR expense. Lose him.
2006-06-06 17:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him and let him know that you're not ready to move that fast and you'd rather be single for a little bit longer. If he asks to still be friends, just say that you need to focus on your girl friends and it wouldn't be a good idea.
2006-06-06 17:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you put up with that? Don't talk to him anymore. If he stalks you, get a restraining order. I don't care how much he apologizes or says he'll change... he won't.
Better yet, next time you see him, just go postal on his nutsack... he shouldn't be having kids.
2006-06-06 17:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by smokingun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave this guy immediately! He doesn't respect you!! Any decent guy will never force himself on you. I don't know how old you are but trust me.....I had to wait 30 years for a decent gentleman! Please don't give up hope. If you feel uncomfortable, get out of a situation....TRUST YOUR GUTT!!! Good luck!
2006-06-06 17:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Angelia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to stop, and if he doesn't threaten to dump him. And if that doesn't work then acually dump him. There is no reason to stay with a guy who scares you.
2006-06-06 17:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by treehugger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are always trying that crap. Be assertive: tell him what you are uncomfortable with and tell him you will not put up with it.
If you've already done that, then dump his ***. You deserve better.
2006-06-06 17:51:11 · answer #11 · answered by luckylab8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋