my friend is on a diet and...?

Question

one of my guy friends is on a diet because he wants to be a model and i am a chubby and he is telling me that i need to go on a diet to the other day i had hot dogs for lunch at school and he sat there and told me that i should not be eating that and that i was going to get fat he did this the whole time i was eating he tells me that i am fat all the time

what do i do?

Answer 1

Why do you have to listen to your friend? Are you happy with yourself just the way you are (realistically I mean everyone has something they'd like to change) but if you don't feel the need to diet, then don't. Dieting is dangerous for teens anyway since your body is still growing.

My advice is first, tell your friend this bothers you, that you're happy he's sticking to his diet, but you aren't on one and don't want to be critisized at every meal. If he can't stop doing it then limit spending time with him to non-food related things, or find new friends to hang with.

Second, you mentioned you are chubby, but didn't give an age. You probably will grow out of it anyway, but if you are self-conscious about it, talk with your parents about how many calories you should be getting each day, and how to set realistic goals about eating healthy, and exercising.

Third, you might want to see your family doctor or nutritionist to make sure you are on the right path. Hope this helps!

Answer 2

It may not final eternally and ultimately they're going to begin consuming in most cases and it ordinarilly messes up their metabolism in the event that they maintain consuming that low ( if they are no longer incredible quick or take a seat all day , then it might be a usual quantity )

Answer 3

I had a friend who use to do that to me, lets just say she's not my friend anymore, and when i did finally lose my baby fat she told everyone i was anorexic! Come to find out she was just jealous of me, for some reason... Maybe he's just unsure of himself and it makes him feel better to rag on someone else instead of himself... Talk to him about it, I'm sure he'll let up..

Answer 4

screw him if he makes fun of u and tells u that u r fat then he is not worth hangin out with he is probally jealous of u and he should not call u fat that is just mean if i were u i would get another friend that would exept u for who u r.he is probally going through alot and he is to worried about himself that he does not care wat any one eles says.hes prob tryin to make him self feel better by callin u fat i think he has a prob and needs some advice

Answer 5

Go find a new friend.

Answer 6

yeah the extra weight you need to loose is that so called friend!