i am now 17 i have been with a guy for 4 years i broke up with him last sept bcuz he cheated on me. he ended up dating the girl for 7 months he now tells me that he broke up with her and that he misses me and that he loves me.he brought me out on couple dates we even had sex together after that but yet the girl he broke up with continues to go to his house and calls his phone wat should i do? by the way he is 18 and we both live with our parents
2006-06-06 10:35:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know its hard to let go of someone you love, even when they want you. But I think deep down you know that you need to leave him. If he really loved you he would have never cheated on you. On top of it all he dated the girl, that just goes to show that he was not sorry. He wanted to be able to date this girl and when he realized she was not what he thought, he wanted you back because he know you where. But that's not how love works. You really need to leave him alone and move on. You can and will find someone who loves you and only you.
Read these lyrics...maybe download the song....then put the song on the tape and send it to him with a letter that says nothing but "Goodbye"
http://www.lyricskid.com/lyrics/martina-mcBride-lyrics/life-no.9-lyrics.html
2006-06-06 10:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! I had the same experience when i was about your age! And it was going on for about 2 years! Having sex, trying to work it out, trying to understand what was going on with the other girl! He kept telling me that he loved me, that i was the love of his life, that he could not stand losing me. However i found out that the other girl often visited not only his house but also his bed!!!! Breaking up was too painful! Now i am 24 and completely over it! In a new relationship with someone that doesn't cheat on me. I see him occasionally. We even managed to be friends! But been back together was impossible even though we tried so hard.
2006-06-06 17:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by ouranitsa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He went out with her for 7 MONTHS!!! that's not just a fling, it was a relationship! it means they had something. honey he's not for you. their relationship broke up for some reason, so he starts to think about u again (which is only normal) but that doesnt mean he loves u or he's changed and all that.
You probably aen't sure because u dated him for a long time, but I bet u if u get another boyfriend who'll treat u right, this one'll quickly zoom out of ur head!
best of luck.
2006-06-06 17:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt bcuz he dated the same gurl he cheated on you with, thats sorry, n besides he mighta got sumthin... if he loved u the first time he wouldnt have done that to you
2006-06-06 17:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by rebekah h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was an ex for a reason, dont waist your time getting back with this guy. he is a loser and the new girl wont let up she will keep after him because she knows she lost to you and she doesnt wany ou to get back with this guy. she wants him let him have her and move on, he is not worth it. what if he wants to break up again. whats he going to do get another girl and then be with her.? and leave you till he gets bored with the new girl then coming back to you whenever he wants. what a big loser. leave him and move on. good luck.
2006-06-06 17:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't even think about that. find another, don't hesitate. and never turn back, just keep breathing - the most important thing! and when someone you see walking along the street takes your breath away, you'll realize that he's the best for you
2006-06-06 17:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat always a cheat move on
2006-06-06 17:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time with this guy. Its not safe. He will hurt you again.
2006-06-06 17:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no. dont do it. he just wants your pants off again. or better yet hook up with him and cheat on him and let him find out. payback....
2006-06-06 17:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Find another person. You are too good for him.
2006-06-06 17:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by ndmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋