2006-06-06 10:06:39 · 31 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Once if they are lucky. The first time they cheat on you it is shame on them, they second time it is shame on you, and the third time it happens well your just being a fool....
2006-06-06 10:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't think I would ever forgive someone who cheats on me because if they do it once then the probability that they will do it again is very high. The other thing is that once they cheat you can never trust them again because you are always going to want to know what they are doing or who they are with. Not only that, but if you forgave them more than once then they are going to think it is okay because you keep forgiving them. Bottom line if they cheat they are gone no questions asked.
2006-06-06 17:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why forgive him when you know he will do it again. if he really loved you then he would have cheated. because he cheated would it be ok with him if you get to cheqat just once? of course not. it would hurt him so much for him to go through that. dont forgive them just forget them they are not worth saving or the heart ache
2006-06-06 17:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 1/2.
2006-06-06 17:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forgive once. Try working thngs out. If it happens a second time - well then I'm not going to be as forgiving and willing to work things out. Once is bad enough. Twice is out the door.
2006-06-06 17:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by big_honey_76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once. And it would depend if they could prove they used a condom and could come to me with a clean bill of health along with a clean AIDS test (two in a row, one done that very day and another six months later).
We would not have any sex until then. You better believe it's about making them understand that cheating is just not worth it.
2006-06-06 17:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times are you going to take it...that is the real question here, isn't it? Sounds like you are going to take it for a long time, so get used to it and stop asking this question. Only you can answer it. You obviously have little sense of self worth. Good luck.
2006-06-06 17:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really stupid to forgive after cheating because who does it once will always do it.
2006-06-06 17:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by Remi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you forgive easy the first time it's like you're saying it's ok to do it again. I for one wouldn't be so quick to forgive....
2006-06-06 17:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by darkness_returns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex cheated on me lots of times. I gave him 7 years and three kids. It is up to u if u belive him or not my advice would be to tell him no more or next time that is it there will be no more chances
2006-06-06 17:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never forgive a cheater...once a cheater always a cheater ...ask yourself how many times do you want to be heartbroken
2006-06-06 17:10:22 · answer #11 · answered by iluvme1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋