Does this sound like a friend who is fake?

Question

This girl and I are always 'on the rocks' with our friendship but I thought we'd outgrown that by now. She is always hiding stuff from people and lying to me. I'm pretty sure she's been talking about me (and some of my other friends) behind my back to this person she knows hurt me. She gets mad when people don't agree with her and often blames me and my sister for her messes. She is highly concieded. She also will agree with anyone just to have friends, she comes off as fake a lot. She is always throwing around hints about somethings that make me uncomfortable. She is always seeming to seclude two of my other really nice friends. She seems to belive that just because she doesn't like someone then I shouldn't either. Currently she asked me something and started being a little ***** about it. Also whenever she is mad at me she talks about me behind my back on her blog and then tries to rally people against me. Anytime she's mad she becomes offstandish and blames me. I am so tired of it.

Ah yes I will still give you all a best answer vote but the problem has been solved. Apparently my friend has been having problems that were deep rooted and couldn't find any other outlet but to be like that. She needs help really bad, pray for her. *thinks to self* Who shall I award the ten points for best answer?

Answer 1

Well this doesn't seem like a very good friend. If your friendship has been going up and down like a rollercoaster lately I strongly suggest that you talk to her face to face and tell her how you feel. Some people don't like that but she is going to have to deal with it whether she likes it or not. After you talked to her give her some time to see if she can changeif she doesn't then I guess she doesn't really understand the true foundation of your friendship. Maybe sooner or later after you have talked to her maybe she will soon realize she shouldn't take this for granted.

Answer 2

sweetheart , this person your talking is not a friend , a friend does'nt talk about you behind your back , a friend does'nt tell you lies ,, a friend does;nt try to turn other people against you , a friend doesn't get mad at you , a friend doesn't blame you for there mistakes .. a friend dont;nt say things to make you uncomfortable ,, a friend doesn't hide things from you , it sounds to me like you already know for yourself that this person is not your friend and you really need to cut her loose from your life. and find a real friend ,,,,, a true friend always tells you the truth,,, a real friend will never blame you for there own mistakes ,, a real friend will always be there for you , a real friend will always lift you up instead of pulling you down ,, a real friend will tell you the truth about your self because thay love you as a friend ,, i real friend want talk about you behind your back ,, a real friend want say or do anything to hurt you, this person is no friend ,,,,, it's hard to find a real friend , you can go threw your whole life and find maybe 1 or 2 real friends ,, i hope i;ve been of some help to you , lots of luck on your decision ,,

Answer 3

She sounds more like NOT your friend than anything at all. You don't need that kind of drama. Someone who is your friend will accept you for you & respect your differences, not hold them against you. A true friend doesn't betray your trust & talk to your enemies. A true friend doesn't talk badly about you behind your back, rather, they bring up any issues they have w/you, w/you.

Not only does she sound fake, but she's selfish, a major drama queen & very immature. For someone like you who wants to be friends w/someone who is pass this stage, you are never going to get the kind of friend out of her that you are to her.

There are plenty of ppl out there, surely you can make more frieneds :)

Answer 4

She does this ____% of the time?
If it's one-in-a-trillion try and work around it.
If her being nice is one-in-a-trillion then she needs to work through her priorities. Being on everyone's list or being on the top of a few. But for whatever the reason she needs to "grow up"

If I can't decide something I flip a coin and then see if I'm disappointed in the outcome. Maybe it'll help you decide.

-Alika613

Answer 5

Sounds to me like she's definatly fake, but really no friend. You should be the better person and cut your ties with her. In the end you will be a happier better person. And if your other friends can't see her for what she is then you don't need them either right now. Eventually she'll burn them and they'll see who she really is.

Answer 6

I have a friend just like that....she's not a real friend...i got rid of her.....if she was your true friend then just because you do something wrong she wouldn't talk about you behind your back.....she would try to fix it......i would get new friends if i was you.......and she would admit to her messes when SHE really makes them.....Also she wouldn't telling everyone your business and giving them hints...well i g2g.....<333 ya lotz homey...!:)<3!

Answer 7

How can a good witch make friends with such a bad witch?
You need a new friend!
You don't want to hang out with people like that, they are energy vampires and they bring negativity.
Good luck!

Answer 8

If you had an ounce of self respect you would have dumped her a long time ago. Why do you need this? Unless she is a family friend that you have to be nice to, let it go!

Answer 9

You've said all the evidence. This is not a friend for you at all. If she was you wouldn't be asking this question. Ask God to give you wisdom to make better friends and to move on. God Bless you!

Answer 10

There shouldn't even be a doubt in your mind this girl is no friend of yours please you can;t be that blind to whats right in your face dumb the brod before something serious happen to either you or your sister because she sounds like she has problems