Any advise please???
2006-06-06 09:47:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do you think you should have any sex experience before you get marry?
2006-06-06 10:21:35 · update #1
Understand a few things before you begin a sexual relationship:
1. Understand that sex isn't going to make some magical change to your relationship. You will be the same two people who were virgins before.
2. Understand that you need to be mature enough that you are deciding to have sex for the right reasons.
3. Understand that the only way to prevent STD infection and/or pregnancy is to abstain. The safest way to have sex and reduce the risk of STD infection or pregnancy is by proper use of a condom.
4. Understand that sex between two virgins probably won't be a magical experience. Imagine two people who have only watched tennis on tv try to play each other. It won't be pretty, but you'll probably have a good time.
5. Read #3 again.
2006-06-06 09:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Schmorgen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should keep the relationship pure and innocent, that is the way God intended it to be. When you get married, that is the time to explore and get to know the other person on an intimate level. It is well worth the wait, so I would say keep it that way..
2006-06-06 16:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by rebekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain that way until you are 100% ready to handle the other "stuff" that comes along with sex, like emotional issues and accidental pregnancy if you're not careful.
2006-06-06 16:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect
2006-06-06 16:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by jimdig33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
***** -- the first time will be quick for him & most likely painful for you, but get the first one over with. It'll only get better after that! Talk about fun to practice!
2006-06-06 17:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex as soon as we both thought we were ready...buy some books on the subject, so we at least had some inkling of what we were getting into...make sure to go slow, relax and let it happen
2006-06-06 16:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time you've both waited as long as you have for a reason...make sure you are in love so there are no regrets. Most importantly USE PROTECTION!!!!!!.....when the time is right.
2006-06-06 16:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by iluvme1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into anything - there's nothing wrong with being a virgin.
2006-06-06 16:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem? Things will work out (or in) with time.
2006-06-06 16:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then be happy tht they decided to wait like you did..it makes everything better
2006-06-06 16:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mike420a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋