what in the world!?

Question

what do you do if everybody likes this one boy and you say you dont like him but deep deep down you like him but you dont think he will like you! and if he says no then everyone will laugh

when i say laugh i mean talk about it forever and i am only 12 years old ok!

Answer 1

talk to him in private, where no one else can hear him telling you no if he did say no.

Answer 2

This is difficult because you are young, but the truth is, whether he likes you or not, you will meet so many other 'hot' boys and boys will like you for different reasons. Not all boys will like you just as you won't like all the boys that ask you out. So you can ask him out if you want to and see what he says, you never know. But if he says no, there will be other boys. Sometimes you can test the waters first by talking to him and flirting a little and seeing how he reacts to you. Good luck.

Answer 3

first you need to be a honest person, you need to quit reading his mind, those are your thoughts , not his. if everyone laughs, it will only toughen you up. if everone that got laughed at quit, were would we all be. you think you are too good to get laughed at? why would you "deep deep down" like someone that you thought was not a genuine caring person, just because this is a dude that everyone likes, you are saying people that are liked by everyone are insensitive aholes, I dislike what people like you do, you automatically put people in a place to be looked down on before you even know them because of the way they look., it's ok to judge good looking people but evil to judge ugly people, double standards. good looking people have everything and can take the judgement better, live a whole life of that crap and see how you like it. everyone judging you before they even know you, like they have the right to judge you for some reason. take it easy on judging the dude, let him show you what he is like.

Answer 4

If you tell him privately that you like him and he's pretty neat, he'll be flattered. But if he's the kind of guy that everybody likes, he may start getting a big head and think he's pretty cool. Even if he is, guys like that can be a pain because they're more interested in themselves than in you.

So just tell him, quietly, that you like him. He'll definitely remember it. Then watch and see what develops. Let him make the next move. If you're nice and friendly, but not pushy, something great may come out of this!

Answer 5

until you are absoulutely sure he will say no than if you are willing to take the chance, go for it. If you are that concerned about being rejected in front of a crowd of people, get him alone and ask him where do you two stand or if he likes you, or you could do it the chicken way, over the phone. LOL! (nothing personal) If youoften have these problems, email me at [e-mail], i'm good at giving advice, trust me, see for yourself.

Answer 6

Thats what happened to me :( (im a boy though :P)
I'm 12 years old at the moment, but just ask him... become friends with him first though
If you make rumours about liking him, he will not go for you, he will get fustrated....
Become friends with him, lead into the subject of girlfriends/boyfriends and ask him when he's alone

Answer 7

trust me, they will find something else to laugh about soon enough...take whatever chances you want to take out of life....cause everything changes...so they laugh? that tells you something about the people who laugh.....and something about the people who dont....next year no one will remember it anyway...you could just say " yeah i think he's hot, i am not crazy am i? but hot isn't enough for me, i dont know him well enough to form a more permanent opinion" or something like that...a guy wants a girl with confidence...even if you have to fake it....but if you fake it and it works, well that builds confidence....so you cant lose!

Answer 8

You're 12. You'll get over it.

It's stupid to bottle up something like that. Go ahead and confess to him. Either he'll reciprocate your feelings, give you a chance, or reject you. Since it's unlikely to have a lasting impact on your life, you have nothing to lose.

Answer 9

Well if you act like you don't like him then try to make him be friends with you(only if he doesnt know you well) You should hang out with him and one day you should tell him you like him; and don't care what other people think or say it's about you not them .

Answer 10

Just keep it to yourself until you feel it is the appropriate time to tell him. Keep letting everyone think that you don't like him. You don't have to tell your friends EVERYTHING about you. My best friend doesn't know EVERYTHING about me. Keep your secret until the right time comes along, or wait a little longer until HE approaches YOU.

Answer 11

Just admit it to him and him only, and see what happens. It can't be all that bad, if he says no. It's just all about growing up, who cares what other's think.